My girlfriends Pregnant, and she wants an abortion :(?

Question

is there anything i can show her or do to change her mind?

Answer 1

Don't let her kill your child :(

www.prolife.com

Answer 2

Let her have the abortion! YOU should not have any children. Get yourself fixed. Anybody that goes to this forum to seek advise on a lifechanging question is a looser. Your GF obviously figured that out. Why did you not use protection? Because you are both stupid.

Answer 3

why aren't you married?  of course she wants to get rid of the baby because you aren't committed to her.  are your parents supportive?  sometimes parents will help raise the child if she feels like she's not ready.  adoption.  there are thousands of people who want your baby!!!  abortion is not the answer; she will have so much baggage and probably leave you.

Answer 4

It's mainly her decision...Have you told her you'd like for her to keep the baby...You don't want to force her...That's won't end good when the baby is finally here...Good luck to you!!!!

Answer 5

Don't force her but...beg, plead, cry, do whatever it takes.

You're saving a life.

Answer 6

I think at da moment ur gf feelin insecure ,frustrated and unhappy. So in order to calm her down, give her the best assistance in supporting your views. And i also suggest that you both should get married! Be all romantic and everything while proposing to her, you seem to be a nice guy, regarding taking the right decision. i am sure you will be a good DAD too> :D

Answer 7

Have her go to you-tube and type in silent scream after she watches how the abortion is performed she might change her mind. Abortion is a horrible death.  

Answer 8

Its her body, her choice in the end.

Have you explained why you want to keep it?

If she really doesn't want to go through pregnancy, labor and birth, don't force her.

Answer 9

I think,if every woman is honest,if you're young,not in a great financial position and you get unexpectedly pregnant,one of your first thoughts is "I can't keep this baby".

It's a BIG shock,but,it's something someone can get used to,and come round to the idea of.

Like others have said,show your support,make sure she feels safe and secure in your relationship,and make sure the relationship is strong enough to love and support a child.

Your girlfriend may just need time to get used to the idea,and right now,she's probably scared to death.

And talk about ALL of your options too. Someones unwanted baby could be someone elses dream child (i.e adoption).

Answer 10

she may feel as though she is not ready for this. Try talking to her. tell her your feelings. it will be her decision, but she should seriously consider your feelings on the matter.

my husband was dating a girl in high school and she got pregnant by him. she had an abortion against his wishes. he wanted to keep the baby, because he doesnt think that abortion is right. he is a grown man, and still cannot even talk about it. he wont even say the word 'abortion'. the memory is so painful for him.

make sure that you voice your opinion.

Answer 11

Well, it's ultimately her decision, but if you want to keep the baby and you love her, then tell her that. Tell her you love her and you want to have this child with her, and you will be there in every way possible, supporting her and helping her every step of the way. Then just hope she changes her mind :) Good luck! Hope this helps  

Answer 12

There is all kinds of anti-abortion sites online that you can show her. I would list links but have done gotten reprimanded by yahoo before, so just google it.  Tell her you want your baby and her. If not that then just the baby. Yes it is her choice in the end but murder is murder period. Hopefully she will do what is right for the child and not be selfish herself.

Answer 13

Ultimately, it's your girlfriends decision. Just talk to her about how you're feeling and everything like that... suggest adoption or show how you two are financially stable enough to support this child. Good Luck