My grand daughter left with my great grandson, on bad terms, what do i do now feel like my life is over?

Question

My grand daughter left with my great grandson, on bad terms, what do i do now feel like my life is over?

Answer 1

Write a letter.  Write the angriest, nastiest letter telling her all the reasons you are mad at her and why this is so unfair and just let your tears spill onto that page (or keyboard).  Get it out of your system.  Then in a day or so when you've had time to reflect and think about all of the good things then try to contact her.  Maybe make a list of what you'd like to say so that you don't get off track.  Tell her that you'll always love her and that you won't always love her choices.  You'll be there for her and that you love her and your great-grandson.  She may not want to move back immediately but find a way to keep in touch.  Sending pictures and cards might help.  Neither of you can take back what has been done but you can move forward.  Oh, and be sure that after a day or two of having that awful letter, destroy it.  You want to let those feelings go, don't hold on to them.  Best of luck to you!

Answer 2

So sorry to hear about that. Well if it was your fault then you need to apoligize. If it wasn't your fault then wait for them to come back around. If you really care about them and don't want things to be like this then have a heart to heart with her and let her know how you feel. If you have big disagreements about things, agree to disagree...Hope everything works out, God Bless!

Answer 3

What happened? Was it on your part? Maybe you can try contacting her and talk things out.