My grandpa's funeral?

Question

Okay, me and my grandpa weren't really that close. He just passed, and it's time to clean his apartment. He has (had) a bagillion grandchildren. The five children (my dad, his 2 brothers, and 2 sisters) are going to go through his stuff. Some of my cousins were really close to him, but it's just going to be his 5 children going through his stuff.

Is it bad of me to want something of his to remember him by?

Would it be selfish to ask my dad to get me something of his to remember him by?

Answer 1

it would be better for all of you to get equal parts because you have all rights in owning things from your grandpa. even if you were not close to him, he is still your grandfather. they should give all of you a remembrance from him so that you will never forget his memories that he shared to all of you.

Answer 2

no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he's ur grandpa