My guy friend and i......

Question

alright, i know the guy, and we've been friends for a couple months now, and i think its safe to say were getting a little closer. now, i have a huge crush on him, and the only reason why i started to talk to him is because i like him. all my friends think he likes me and i sort of do too because it seems he flirts with me alot. i want to move on to the next step in our relationship but im still very shy around the subject.

what should i do?

Answer 1

You should be careful so you don't lose your friendship. Maybe you could drop hints, like ask him who he likes and smile at him a lot.

Answer 2

take it one step at a time, don't rush things, talk to your other Friend's about the subject if there willing to,  

Answer 3

Telling him is the easiest thing. It's hard to get the words out but if he's really your friend, he'll be faithful to you. The hardest thing for a boy is the same as for girls, Does she like me or not? Once he knows for sure he might help take it onward.  

Answer 4

don't be, just flirt a little, and see how it goes. If it works out it works out!! whoohooo!!!

Answer 5

Just joke around and be like, "Yeah so when are going to ask me out?" and if he shows intrest in it then go along with it if not move on, or talk to one of his friends to find out his feelings.

Answer 6

Hang out with him in "date fashion" to do this:

pick a place of bonding that is NOT the mall or even the movies:

skating at a rink, and hold his hand

bowling

at the park, pack a lunch or if its a REAL park, walk a trail

the beach

ride bikes through town

hang out at a coffee place

study together (when school starts)

amusement park

mini golf

racing

a pier

A lot of these places are free too!

It's only been some months, so just do that - its like dating, with out declaring it. cause real dating is something that you try with someone (when you are BOTH AWARE of the feelings) to see if you should make a RELATIONSHIP. yeah, they are two different things.

Mix those days up with group dates and group hang outs.

after a few MORE months, maybe 2 or 3 more, if he hasn't asked yet, just bring up - how would you like to go out on a date to this place? yes, girls CAN do this, and many guys like it when you do.

and all this time, just flirt back...if you're a bit this means smiling more, giving him hugs, and suddenly holding his hand, rather than being verbal or provocative.

and if after all that he is not into you - then it was NOT a waste - it just wasn't they guy, but at least you would have learned how to date.

Answer 7

Talk to him about it .

Answer 8

tell him i really like movies then when you talk about ask if you want to go see a movie.

When you say that the word will just slide out

Answer 9

if you kiss him first he would never leave your side