My guy friend sent me this super crazy text... what do i do?

Question

He's super cute and i do like him.. but it creeped me out! it said.....

Baby, I think I love you. There is no doubt about it. I wanna be in you.

It was kind of out of the blue too. Well, right after I saw him at a party... maybe about a week. He's really cool and all... but i don't wanna be involved if it's going to be like his text says.. help!

Answer 1

umm well he just wants to have s*x with you! and since you actually like him then dont do it! because youll just get crushed at the end.  

Answer 2

dont be upfront about it because if it was a mistake , you might look desperate and dumb. so ask him about it and if it is what it says tell him you dont wanna take a risk of ruining the friendship.

Answer 3

Sounds like you know this guy pretty well - is he the sort of fella who, when he says "I wanna be in you." means ... well, you know; or could have meant "I wanna be with you." or "I'm really into you" and just got his words mixed up when sending the text? (Guys get their tongues tied real easy when talking to girls they like)

If you are not sure then maybe you can ask him (Pretty awkward conversation I know, but...)

If his text really was of the smutty kind then maybe he isn't quite so cool after all, but maybe it isn't that bad. Maybe he was just a bit drunk or a bit strung out and regrets it now.

Hope it works out for you.

Answer 4

If that is what the text said act like you didn't receive it.  That sounds like just a ploy for him to get s*x...yuck.

Answer 5

he wants to do it...dont fall for it.

Answer 6

i would avoid him like the plaque. He was crude saying that without any procation on your part. this text was so inappropriate you and most people would be grossed out. If you were in a romantic relationship and you had experienced that together already, those feelings can come gushing o the surface, but not out of the blue as you say. He's not cool any more!

Answer 7

Yeah, i agree he sounds like someone looking for ***! I would def talk about it and trust your instinct about it! Don't be shy to bring it up if any one should be embarrassed its him not you. Plus guys love when a girl can hold her own

Answer 8

either he wants to f**k you,

or he meant to put,"be with you."

yeahhhh ?

so hope I helped, haha

:)

Answer 9

I would assume he was either drunk, or that a friend sent it, or both.

My friends and I tend to steal phones and send messages, sometimes without even checking who the text is going to, and if we've been drinking the texts will almost always be something like that, if not more explicit. So it's just understood that when you get a text like that, it's way more likely to be a joke which the owner of the phone doesn't even know about (or was unable to stop).

It's actually quite entertaining when people reply to texts someone else sent from your phone, as you go in circles trying to figure out what the heck they're talking about. Of course, it's not so good when they send "hey s**y, i want u so f'ing bad, u shud *** over lol" to your ex-boyfriend.

But still. I'd be inclined to assume that a text like that has a story behind it, and you should know the contexts before you get upset or creeped out.

Answer 10

i think you should call him and talk about it. no i dont think he wants to have s*x with you. it might have been a joke, it might have been one of his friends. on text it can be anyone or anything and the only way youll really know is to hear his voice. call him up and be like "hey i got a random text from you, what was that all about" and let him react. you can tell hjim that you like him but you really dont want a relationship like that. i hope everything works out!  

Answer 11

if you dont want to be involved like that tell him

Answer 12

So pretend you never got the text. It will save on any acward moments or embarrasment. If he does anything like that again, just act turned off by it, if you dont wanna be with someone like that then dont, there are plenty others. He sounds like a pig!!!