My guys ''quick release''?

Question

First off let me say I love my spouse, and I do love s*x.

I'm 10 yrs with the guy, s*x has never been that amazing with him and he's always been quick to go so we did the training tools that you do to prolong him, we do me first etc but the minute he's in, he's out you know what I mean.

I'm feeling jipped!!

Answer 1

Sounds like the portal requires some pre-ejaculatory reaming.  

Answer 2

give him a ******** or a hand job first so that he might last longer next time. also get him to stop before he feels like he is going to come let himself calm down before going in again

Answer 3

Several suggestions:

1) Increase the frequency you have s*x.

2) Try finishing him off completely BEFORE he starts working on you. (The second o****m for a guy is typically much harder to get to)

3) Get a few toys to speed you up and creams to "desensitize" him.

4) Take great pride in the fact that you are doing something VERY right.

Answer 4

Have him m********e before you two have s*x. Not right before but an hour or so before.  He will last longer.  

Or theres that little blue pill that will keep it strong long after his volcano erupts. lol

Good luck

Answer 5

you may turn on so much that he can't help himself. I she quick every time? Maybe you should not prolong the foreplay. Yeah I know That may be boring but try anything. Or it may be that YOU don't feel THAT WAY about him....

Answer 6

Von C is right, but also try a c*ck ring.

Also have him do Kegel exercises.  It works for both guys and girls.

Answer 7

There are a few things you can try.

1. Your foreplay will need to include a release from him first that you then have to build back up. The second release takes longer to happen if they already let one lose.

2. Use a condom to remove some of the feeling. As great as the bare thing is, it can bee too much for him.

3. They have this lube you can get at an adult store called "Numb It". Its to help numb the sensation for the guy so he goes longer.

4. Booze. I know its funny but if a guy is a little more than buzzed, it takes forever for the release to happen.

5. If he feels like he is going to release, he needs to control himself and pull out! Maybe go pee or something. Dont touch his part for awhile. lol

6. Have a s*x a thon. Plan a weekend where all you do is the deed several times.

7. Incorporate "toys" for you as part of your foreplay that may give you an o****m first. And maybe he should make sure you have a couple before going for it.

Good luck! I hope one ore more of these ideas helps you out! It has for me...*wink*

Answer 8

He's too sensitive in that area, maybe try some desensitizing cream that slightly numbs but not too much that he doesn't feel anything.

Don't berate him though because that will cause performance anxiety and the opposite will eventually occur and you'll get even less. It's embarassing enough for him as it is I'm sure.

Answer 9

welcome to wedded bliss! im in the same boat.

Answer 10

von C got the answer right.  That will slow him down and if it doesn't, have him do it twice.  whatever it takes....h**l, if he's shy...do it for him. The "you first" thing won't work....watching you is gonna make him go off quicker ...it's a big turn on for guys.

Answer 11

You must be very hot. Get some side action that will take care of your "needs". I'm available and freaky!

Answer 12

wow   holy cow   i hate to brag but i learn to hold off and let the wife go first or we go together and most of the time she has doubles