My hair and unhappiness/anger?

Question

I recently broke up with my fiance. It wasn't fun and he had convinced me to not dye my hair anymore. I had been dying it dark brown and my hair is naturally auburn (who knew).

I would really like to dye it dark again. I realize my hair is much healthier when I don't dye it. But I hate the red color in it and want to eradicate it with black hair dye. The red makes me angry.

I really don't like my hair and I have hacked it off many times before and dyed it many, many colors.

I have a certain disgust/distaste for my hair. What is this? Is there a name for it? Anyone else do this too?

Answer 1

I think coloring your hair would be a freeing experience for you.

I sometimes get depressed because I don't think my hair will ever turn silver, which would be a nice boost for my corporate career.

Answer 2

some people don't like their hair but other people might think it looks good. But if you don't like it you should dye it. make yourself happy.

Answer 3

Wash that man right out of your hair! ;)

If you weren't coloring it to make someone else happy, please do whatever it takes to make you happy with it. If that is dying it, so be it.

I have a love/hate relationship with my hair, at times. I am starting to like it at its God-given color, but it took a long time.

I think that when you find the color/style/cut you are looking for, you will be happy with your hair. You should be, you have very pretty hair.

:)

Answer 4

I always tried to change what ever I could about myself to try to escape my boring old self.  I thought new hair, new me! Not so.