My hosue was robbe yesterday and i need advice. SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!?

Question

ok this is long but i really need advice.

PLEASE HELP ME!

my house was robbed yesterday at around 1:25. They stole my gold jewelry and my T.V. Earlier that morning my ex boyfriend called me asking for bail money. He said he was about to turn himself in unless he could pay this fine. I told him no buecause that is HIS PROBLEM NOT MINES! So he left the question alone but asked me where i was at.(im guessing to make sure no one was home so he can rob my house) i didnt think nothing of it because he always wants to come and see me. He called me again 10:02 ,12:25 , 12:48, and 1:15. I didnt answer his calls because i was working. I txt him saying i was busy. Then at 1:30 my dad calls me and tells me the alarm system went off and we have been robbed. The police came and tried to find finger prints but came up with nothing. Also The stuff that was taken was the same stuff he would look at in my house!

So i am askin you guys what should i do?

I called his friend phone and asked where my ex was and his friend said he was locked up since this morning!

Should i tell the police?

Is this enough evidence?

PLEASE HELP ME!

Answer 1

If you have any information about the robbery you should tell the cops and let them investigate it. Especially if you want to see your stuff again and you are really convinced it was this guy.

You never know, maybe it really wasn't him. But at least he'll be out of your life if that's what you want.

Answer 2

Yes, tell the police everything you suspect.  I do believe it was him, and of course his mate will tell you otherwise.

I hope if it is him he gets charged for it, and if it isn't him, well I hope they catch the dog.

Nothing worse then this happening, I know how it feels, it 's been many years since I got broken into and i still feel anxious when I come home.

Honey I wish you all the best of luck.

Minny :-)

Answer 3

Inform the police anything you see suspicious ,and you have to increase your home security , for example : Leave the lights on. When you go out, leave a light on in any room in the house or invest in a light timer to automatically turn on lights at whatever time you want. Let the thief hesitate about breaking in,Lock your doors & windows ,Don't leave notes on the door.

Simple and effective security is mostly common sense. You would not leave your house with the keys in the door would you?then again , common sens is not so common .

Answer 4

It's not enough evidence and it sucks. I cought someone red handed breaking in2 my mums and it was mine and my friends word against theres. Also my mums other hose was broken in2 and shefound seringes left in there and they wouldn't even dna test them against the people she KNEW it was.

Answer 5

Yes tell the cops he stole your stuff try to get him in jail ~~

Answer 6

Just forget about it, he's going through some really tough times right now. When he gets out of jail he'll make it up to you with a good roll in the hay, or he'll take you out to a fine dinner at Mickey D's. (depending on how much money he has left from the pawn shop after paying his bail)

Always remember, good men are hard to find.

Answer 7

Oh, honey, of course you should tell the police!!! It is their job to gather evidence, not yours. You should call them immediately so they can get a statement.

Just say "I've been thinking about the robbery, and I'm pretty sure it was my good-for-nothing ex. Here's why..."

Even if they decide they don't have enough evidence to arrest him, they can at least give him a good talking to and scare him! Good luck!

Answer 8

Absolutely tell the police what you think!  Asking his friend where he is and making other inquiries on your own could make the cops job harder so just turn it all over to them.   I hate to say this but the Mom in me must.  This guy called you for bail and now you suspect him of taking your stuff.  Whether he did or not the fact that you find the scenario believable is very telling.  If the cops can't prove it was him, I do not think you will ever totally believe he didn't,  Even if he is totally cleared, do you want to stay in a relationship with someone you frankly don't trust...  I'm thinking this may not be the guy for you.   Sorry I felt I had to say that, I know it's not the question you asked. Good Luck

Answer 9

Yes, I don't believe he was in jail. You know he robbed you. You are just enabling him to continue to do this & your lesson is you have to stand up for youself. I am not one to run to the police buy you have to put your foot down. If you continue to have a relationship with him you are asking for trouble. So you need to do the right thing, take care of yourself & part of that is cutting off this relationship with him. If you continue your relationship then you deserve what you get. We all learn from bad things so this is an opportunity for you to learn or to be a victim.

Answer 10

Yes let them know what you suspect. They can very easily check if he was in fact locked up. Worse alibi ever given wa i was in jail Unless they are really telling the truth.

Also Umm you may want to think about stopping all contact with this loser.

and No more calls to his homies that tends to show interest So cut all contact refuse any more calls If he calls you do not answer and no text messages None of his business

Heck change your number. This guy is a first class loser clown

Who needs him You do not need a man who is not doing anything for himself cause that means he sure ain't going to do anything for you

Answer 11

Yes, tell them NOW call the police.