My husband's ex keeps calling us almost everyday, regarding little details bout their son. Am i a bad wife?

Question

Actually, i have asked this before, now hes not my bf anymore but my husband, we got married two weeks ago. My husband had a son from a girl who was not his girlfriend, sort of a lady who was very obsessed with him and had done everything to get herself pregnant. Now, am really trying to be understanding as much as possible, we are giving support for the baby, we are taking the baby with us on weekends, and am really trying to be understanding as much as i can with her unending calls about their son... lately, she has been calling my husband in the middel of the night and alwasy using the baby is very ill, only to find out that its just a very minor one, as a backgrounder, she had a son also with another man who is 4 years old. So im thinking she already had an ample experience taking care of babies, but she keeps asking my husband what to do. Shes slowly getting into my nerves already. How can i tell my husband that i want limitation on these calls? or am i being unreasonable or bad? By the way, am pregnant with our first baby. But to be honest, my weekends had never been for myself.

Answer 1

Turn the ringer off at 9PM, and on when you get up. PERIOD!

This is very rude of anyone calling late at night.

Tell your husband this has got to stop, or he will be paying child support to you also!

Answer 2

Yes, you need to set limitations.  If the child is with you during the weekends, there is no need for her to call as she knows the child is under good care.  During the week, there is no reason to call your home unless it's an emergency about the child.  She has a 4 year old, so she also must have a pediatrician.  She needs to stop calling your husband and call the doctor if she has a question.  You need to set this straight with your husband right now.  

Answer 3

ekk! just talk to ur hubby about it :]

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