My husband Has Alzheimer's and keep asking for s*x. I am 76 he is 82 with severe medical problems.

Question

He is on oxygen, has heart problems, prostate cancer, and is too disabled to leave the house. After 3 years of no s*x , lately he seems to be hyper, nervous and sassy. I am not interested in s*x and do not know what or how to explain to him NO. I told him I am too old and it hurts his feelings that I say no. I offered to cuddle (we have seperate rooms) and he say's that is not enough. HOW DO I EXPLAIN TO AN ALZHEMIERS PERSON THAT I LOVE HIM BUT AM OUT ON THE s*x?

Answer 1

get some ky gel and let the old guy have some fun

Answer 2

smells fishy... your father had the same problem, your 76 with 2009 caddy, your talking about eating lobster in vegas... u want attention

Answer 3

simple, no booty tonyi

Answer 4

get him a blow up doll or something

then he can pleasure him self

Answer 5

You need to tell him that he is to old and his medical conditions are not stable enough for sexual intercourse.  He needs to understand that.  Contact me for more assistance and let me know how it goes.

Answer 6

tell him you already had it three times today , then say gosh babe don't you remember your gonna wear me out . go take a nap .  

Answer 7

talk to his doctor in private and ask him to advise him that its not good for his health to have s*x due to his health problems.

Answer 8

Are you saying that your dad is 81 and you are 76? Your dad was 5 when he fathered you? This is what you posted in a previous question:

"My father has been diagnosed with prostate cancer. Well advanced the Dr. said.?

The Dr. feels he is too old(81) and has too many other health problems that it will be worse to treat than to leave alone. Where can I find information on life expentency if we do not treat his cancer. He does have multiable health problems that he suffers from now, that will probly take him before cancer. Will I need to find care for him if the cancer spreads into other areas? He already has bowel and urineating problems. Feel blind on what to expect, is there any studies on un treated cancer process and symptoms?"

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Answer 9

lol just tell him youll do it if he can get it up..

that should solve all the problems