My husband and I have been trying to conceive, and have been each other's only partner (ever). We have been intimate for three years and have never gotten pregnant, with the exception of one tubal abortion (we did not abort -- my body aborted, somewhat like an ectopic pregnancy). It is very hard with people asking when we will have children, especially when so desperately want to, but haven't been able to.
In September, my doctor would like to try me on Clomid, which she says can drastically increase the chances of conception.
We will be loving parents, and we know that we'll make mistakes, but do the very best we can. We are financially stable, and have stable jobs, but should we not -- we would certainly go without so our child(ren) did not have to.
My husband is very optimistic and saying "It will happen," but it's not so easy for me.
I am at the point where I cry when I see others with their babies, knowing that I want the very same. How can I keep from getting discouraged?
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