My husband and I live in NC and want to adopt a baby or young child.?

Question

We have been trying to get pregnant for 5 years now but between thyroid and pcos there has been no luck. We don't have a lot of money so an adoption agency is out. We have pretty good jobs and a whole lot of LOVE! any suggestion would be grateful thanks in advance.

Answer 1

well the legal way to adopt is through an agency, a domestic agency will be better, nad less costly, they will have you fill out a profile that birthmothers look at, it has your picture and stuff about you guys in it. OR if you don't want to wait that long, talk to a social service director and they can help you (google or yellow pages) and they may need you to be a foster faily, but its an easy way to get into adopting, and you can usually adopt your foster's if they go up for adoption

Answer 2

Have you ever thought of having someone else carry your baby, I know thats a little weird, but it would be yours.... I don't really know it was just a suggestion I am not even sure if its costly or not...but whatever you guys decide i wish you all the luck!