My husband and I....?

Question

My husband and I are getting a divorce. He texted me on Saturday and said we cant be together and that he wanted a divorce. To this day he has really not given me a reason. I suspect another women in this but he denies denies denies. We dont have any children.

Also I am still young I know I am only 23 but am worried that I wont ever find another person again to spend my life with and have a family. As I really want a family.

Just wanted to vent a bit. Thanks.

Answer 1

Lady....any 'man' who can't air out his differences or break that type of news to your face is not worth keeping in your life.

He's a coward for starters. Texting his intention of a divorce to you. What a lowlife.

Answer 2

It is really sad that you're getting a divorce, but you could thank God for the fact that you're still very young and the fact that you don't have children!

Your relationship wasn't true love and it was not meant to be and you realizing it at the right time.  You also won't wind up a single mother who will be struggle like h**l trying to get a divorce and raise a family.

You have to look at the bright side, because your real man is still out there.  You haven't met the man of your dreams yet and when you do, you will be so glad that you got a divorce.  That's the man that will treat you like gold with love, respect, trust, communication and he will do anything to make you happy.  That's the man you marry and raise a family with.  That should be in your late 20's, early 30's, after you've been dating for at least 3-5 years.    

Just sit back and relax now, because your life is going to change, but only for the better.

Good Luck

Answer 3

aww i am sorry to hear about your situation and yes you are still young and you should enjoy life and if he wants to get a divorce then give it to him and move on because you will find someone better to spend your life with

Answer 4

threre's a reason for np explanationon. maybe he has gained an interest in the opposite s*x.

but you'll find someone didn't get married till i was 26

Answer 5

Your husband "texted" you that he wanted a divorce???  There's gotta be somone better for you out there.  

Answer 6

If he doesn't have enough respect to tell you to your face that he wants a divorce, honey, you don't need him anyways. What kind of man text his wife and tells her he wants a divorce? You are only 23, you have your whole life ahead of you, trust me, you'll be glad once he's gone.

Answer 7

I was in a very similar situation a few years back. I am 28 now but when I was 20 I married this guy. We were only married for a year and one day he called me on the phone and said he was moving out and wanted a divorce. Never gave a real reason why. I was horrified and lost. I also thought I would never find another guy but now I have been with the same guy for 6 years and we are engaged. You are young and trust me you will find true happiness elsewhere. Its his loss not yours!  

Answer 8

Dont worry, you are just barely grown up.  You have plenty of time to have 2 families with your next 2 husbands.  Go and file for divorce and be done with him

Answer 9

don't worry, you will find someone.  I did at age 35 after 14yrs of marriage.  Chin up!

Answer 10

i also got married young and im still young

i use to think that if me and my hubby divorce

am i going to be alone and never find

someone else again. i think you will find

someone even better and you will have the family

that you want someday..

good luck =)

Answer 11

Don't worry about finding someone. This could cause you to rush into another relationship or marriage. You are still young. Learn to enjoy your life and you will meet someone when you are ready. When you go looking for love,it is hard to find. You will fall into love when you least expect it.

Sorry to hear about your husband and his lack of respect. Good luck.

Answer 12

I understand you want to vent.. The fact that you're young and you didn't have children with him is GREAT. Take your time and enjoy life. You're young and you have so much time for a family. Enjoy being single and seek counseling to better yourself and get closure on this divorce. Good luck.

Answer 13

He TEXTED you to say he wanted a divorce. What a sniveling little coward to not have the testicles to tell you to your face.

a man with such tiny balls was not going to be able give you a family, so while it hurts, its for the best.

Answer 14

You are still young so divorce this guy who doesn't care to commit to his vows and go find you one that will.  You have plenty of time to find another man.  In the meantime take care of yourself, be confident, and build your career.  The right man will see all the qualities you have to offer.

Good luck!

Answer 15

That's sad :(

Sent you a text even, what a coward. Don't worry, you have a lot of life left, you wont be alone forever. There's plenty of good men out there, ya just gotta open your eyes and find one.

Answer 16

Your only 23 and got plenty of time to meet another man and have a family.

Dont give up there is someone out there for you.

Answer 17

If HE found you attractive enough to marry you,then someone else will also,but tell him before you sign any divorce papers you want a REASON as to WHY he is divorcing you.He OWES you that much.

Answer 18

You're welcome. I hope you feel better. I'm sorry this is happening to you, but I have no doubt you'll emerge a stronger person on the other side of this issue. Better love and better times are ahead of you; believe that.

Answer 19

23 huh, you lucky dog. I would change my cell phone #. Thank God there are no children, and go out and have a grand time with your closest friends. Its time to celebrate. Don't waste another minute on this one. You will find happiness without this guy. Give him what he wants young lady. Divorce. Tell him to hit the road. Good luck, and have fun. you got such a great and exciting life ahead of you.

Answer 20

ditch the looser you are young and they have made it easy to find guys on the internet so you should have no problem finding another man

Answer 21

He texting you shows that he is a jerk and he's not the right person for you. Cheer up you are young and you have got your whole life ahead of you.