My husband and i have been married 4 months i am taking him to meet my fathers family how do i tell them? ?

Question

i dont know how to tell them that we got married.

Answer 1

call them apart and tell them. be sure you can talk to them to the tiredness. Be sure you explain yourself enough and then don't worry, it's not your problem

Answer 2

tell them that you "accidentally" got married. that's what people who get caught in an affair always say...that they accidentally had s*x!

Answer 3

How do you tell them what? That you are married?

Just come out and say it. Is there something that you are ashamed of about this guy? You know this is like pulling teeth here. If you want an answer ask a friggin Q.

Answer 4

My wife and I did that too and now her dad hates my guts, its been several years now since we married and he still doesn't accept me. Of course hes not mad at his little daddys girl, just at me = typical.  

Answer 5

You are married so just tell them the best way you can.

Answer 6

wow - i was married for 3 years - then, we had a mock wedding to make my family believe that was our wedding day... we were married another 3 years from that day.. my mother found out i had ben married a totalt of 6 years the day of my divorce, when they announced it in the court room... lol.. we agreed never to talk about it... not that i think your marriage wont work, but its considerably harder when you hold such a strong secret... so, you have a couple choices, you can tell them - and they could take that a couple ways: A) they could be happy they didnt have to spend all the time, stress, and $$ it usually takes on a wedding or B) they could be pissed you did what you did and not even give them the opportunity to decide if they want to be a part of it... especially your dad...

or, you could not tell them, and do what i did - have a mock wedding in a year.. everything will go as if you were getting married that day, but you have to do it through a justice of the peace and tell them the truth.. that way they know they just perform a ceremony, and will not have a marriage license to sign....

my mock wedding was beautiful!!! and no one knew otherwise!

Answer 7

Tell them you are married!!

Answer 8

Well, you could do what my wife did.. We showed up at her grandmother's funeral.  She said to everyone, "Hi, this is my husband."  It worked pretty well, though they were shocked to find out we had been married for 3 years at the time.

Answer 9

Honey>>>Theres only 1 way of telling them. JUST TELL THEM. What other way is there?  

Answer 10

Act as if nothing special happened. If he gets nuts and angry///tell him it was HE who discouraged you about marriage and said not to, that it would not last 3 months. He was so against it that you did not want him around you until you see re married more than 3 months so you could prove him wrong ( really to rub it in his face, but Do not tell him this),..If he is still angry, you are a married woman and mature. let him stew in his own juices of his own making....tough in him!  Be proud to be married and happy! That is you future, and dad is with the past or the pasture.

Answer 11

"Hello ___________, this is my husband __________."

Answer 12

Tell them you are married? What is your question here?

Answer 13

sweetie, if you thought you were grown enough to get married, then you're grown enough to tell your parents.  

Answer 14

married for 4months and your parents don't know about it, h**l what is happening in this world nowadays, however, there is nothing to be worried about the deed has been done, just go ahead and tell them and they should forgive you and your hubby for not involving them in your wedding and tell them also that you really love each other dearly and they should understand, support give their blessing, try to be emotional about it when talking to them, if possible shade some tears to show that you did act that way to hurt them. it is better to do it now when the marriage is still rosy, after all the truth is that marriage is not always bed of roses. wish you good luck.

Answer 15

Well we were walking down the street and slipped and got married.

Answer 16

IF you are that afraid give him a call today and tell him your married.  That way at least your father will know before you tell the rest of the family..

Answer 17

What is the question?You got married and you didn't tell your father.Just come out and tell him.Don't beat around the bush about it.Just say Dad this is my husband and hopefully he will be happy for you.You never know.Good Luck

Answer 18

So you eloped, is that it?

If that is the case, you just tell them the truth.

Answer 19

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Answer 20

i'm not understanding the big deal here.  my only thing is...if you werent mature enough to tell your collective families that you got married, maybe you werent mature enough to have gone through with it.  they were going to find out sooner or later, and will now probably be even more annoyed that you didn't tell them.  full disclosure is usually the best policy in these situations.

Answer 21

What is the question?