My husband and my boss are arogant and get on my nerves .?

Question

they both think they can talk to me any ole kind of way im tired of the c**p i do so much at work and at home i am fed up im tired of the disrespect i answer back with the attitude i am self suffieceint and dont need a man talking to me like they own me im over 40 and tired of the testicular rants of the men in my life

Answer 1

the best advice is to CUSS THEM OUT mentally.  It works for me (you sun of a *(&&$*&#& (*#&!*(*(#$&* and (*#&*&$#* and smile at the same time hehehe

Answer 2

Dear stand for you self if u r boss is insulting or being arrogant unnecessary  stood for u . People will respect you only if u respect yourself . Tell your husband that u are married u r  in a mutual relationship  u r not his slave . If he understand its good if he dosnt  then you have right to live respectable life .This also applies to u r boss if he continues to act as arrogant *** quit find a new job , i am sure u will Best of luck.

Answer 3

Do a web search on "I Hate Men".  There's a great website by that name that will help when you need to blow off steam about stupid arrogant men.  I highly recommend it!

Now guys, before y'all get on my case, let me say YOU'RE NOT ALL BAD!!  But some of you really give the good guys a bad name!

Quasi - As a woman over 40, I thank you (you're right, you know!)

Answer 4

So if you're so independent and self sufficient why do you care what they say?  Why would you marry someone who obviously doesn't care for you?  If you're everything you say you are I wouldn't let the stupid things men say affect your life that much.  There are polite people out there and there are stupid people out there--you choose how to live your own life.  And don't marry an a**-****.

Answer 5

Divorce him. Get a new job. I divorced mine. Things are great! Do it. Don't look back. He'll never respect you.

Answer 6

I wonder why they would get frustrated with you? You sound like a real peach!

BTW-- before you b@tch about how great you are at work, run the spell checker that's right next to the text box-- might take you a little more seriously then.

Answer 7

So over 40 woman........why do you allow them to do so. Most women I've known who were over 40 never had a problem putting their foot down when they felt they were being pushed around.

Plus they were d**n good in bed too. but that's because by 40 you should know just what you want and how to get it.

Answer 8

Yeah, well we don't need your ovarian rants either.

Answer 9

Now Syd... a good ovarian rant is okay from time to time (like once a month)

Now go eat some chocolate , girl..you'll be just fine in another week. I agree, Ring Ring...spell check is essential. A good ovarian rant fails miserably without it.

Answer 10

Read the Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands by Dr Laura.  Then quit your job, stay home and take care of your family.  Men all want to know that they are the financial head of their family and that their woman needs them.  You are telling two men that you are more powerful than them and can handle things on your own which is hurtful to them.