My husband calls me her name still!!!

Question

I am so sick and tired of my husband who has been married to me 2 years calling me and our daughter his exs' name. It really pisses me off. Is this normal?? Should he still be mistaking her name with ours? Does he still have a thing for her and is she still on his mind??

Answer 1

I agree with amoo, really when you make mistakes like that names or not your usually thinking of the person or thing you say. Try talking to him about it. Ask if he misses her or something. Good Luck! I know that must suck!

Answer 2

That is part of the reason I divorced my husband. He could not get over his ex wife ( no kids by her Thankfully)

Sorry to say IMO he still has a thing for her

Answer 3

um dont sound normal, he should posible seek out a doctor or shrink to figure out if something else lay underneet it

i'd instantly be more conserned then mad if i where you specialy as its not just you but the daugther as well

Answer 4

Either he's still talking to his ex a lot or he's thinking about her a lot. Just approach him about it, don't be defensive either, it could start a big nasty fight. Maybe there are some underlying issues that need to be discussed. Let him know that you have a problem and go from there, stay calm. Keeping it together is key.

Answer 5

Sorry

But yeah, it sounds as though she is on his mind.....

Have you spoken to him about it?

Ask him WHY he does it.....

Tell him he is making you feel as though you are not good enough and he misses her.

He shouldnt be mistaking your name for hers at this stage.

Answer 6

ouch.  ummmm talk to him.  that's strange.  unless he still has some residual feelings.

Answer 7

That sounds a bit strange and suspicious...especially if he's calling your DAUGHTER by her name....sounds like he's thinking of her a lot :(