My husband can't keep up and says I'm a nymphomaniac and gave can me permission to go cheat..I am so upset...?

Question

because I have no other options where I live? What are some good options?

Answer 1

Buy a vibrator for you and some Viagra for him

Answer 2

Seems you would be upset becuase he wants you to cheat - not because you do not have "options"

Answer 3

Sounds like a problem I would love to have... Buy some toys and satisfy yourself ..... I actually think toys might help him get into it more, but be careful because they may make him feel more inadequate.

Answer 4

If he gave you permission to cheat, then there's trouble brewing possibly..in the way of a divorce.  Best thing I can think of you to do is get yourself a s*x toy or two to satisfy yourself. A good vibrator or d***o or a Sybian machine could be a big help. And using them in front of him sometimes can be a big turn on and reenergize his batteries a bit.

Answer 5

Don't say you have no other options, ya got two hands, don't ya?

Buy a B.attery O.perated B.oyfriend.  You won't catch anything from B.O.B.  You can turn him on when you want to and turn him off when you don't want to be bothered.  He doesn't say much, doesn't drink beer all day, doesn't watch tv sports ad nauseum, you don't have to cook or clean for him or do his laundry, and he doesn't spit or scratch or f**t or snore.  All he asks for is fresh batteries.  Come to think of it, B.O.B. sounds like the better option!

hee hee hee

Answer 6

What, are you asking us where you can find a s*x partner. Believe me, when your boyfriend gave you permission he did NOT mean it. Don't be crazy, get a d***o

Answer 7

Viagra

Toys first

Go to a dr and talk to them about it

Answer 8

you have 2 options, toy or divorce.

but never go for another guy, he doesn't mean it, he is only testing you.

Answer 9

Go seek counseling..

Answer 10

Is he a lot older than you?  Does he have ED?  You know, a man doesn't have to have an erection to pleasure a woman.  It is his responsibility as your husband to keep you sexually satisfied, just as it is a wife's responsibility to satisfy her husband.  Since you are the one with the stronger s*x drive, your roles are maybe reversed from the norm, but the answer is the same.  Even if he doesn't feel like it, or has a headache, if he wants to keep you as his wife, he has to keep you satisfied.  

But could it be that there is a deeper problem?  Are you one of those wives who, no matter how often you have s*x or have an o****m, it's not enough?  A man gets tired of feeling inadequate pretty quickly.  (A wife does too, for that matter.)  You may have deeper relationship issues, it may not just be about orgasms.  You two may need counseling, or you may just need to do a little honest introspection, and ask yourself if you are being unreasonable.  A man wants to feel that he is satisfiying his wife.  Why can't you give him that gift?

Answer 11

Self control.

That's always been a fine option to exercise.

And because of your location 'cheating' isn't an option. Where do you live...Antartica?  

Answer 12

Don't worry, help is at hand! Give me an email and I'm sure I can accommodate any of your requests. It wont cost you a penny either. Are you free this weekend?

Answer 13

Yahoo Personals? Or AdultFriendFinder.com? I'm not good with helping others find s*x. I have enough trouble getting it for myself.

Answer 14

try a toy store and vibrate yourself crazy

Answer 15

take him to urologist

Answer 16

Hollow out a large cucumber and insert a vibrating egg until other options are available, then make a big salad for your hubby . good

Answer 17

find a f buddy and have a ball

Answer 18

I THINK IF YOU PURSUE THIS FURTHER NOT ONLY WILL YOU LOSE YOUR  HUSBAND BUT ALL RESPECT FOR YOURSELF.  THINK LONG AND HARD BEFORE YOU ATTEMPT ANY SEXUAL PLEASURE OUTSIDE  YOUR MARRIAGE.  DID YOU MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOUR HUSBAND OR NOT?

Answer 19

Hey, wanna start a support group with me?  lol

Don't cheat, that's gross:)

Just get a Really Good vibrator or a fancy shower massager, lol

Answer 20

Unless you want it 24/7 I would say, for him to tell you that, he has something on the side. No man would give his wife permission to cheat unless he was. Maybe he is sick and wants to watch. If you don't have kids, I would say lose him.

Answer 21

get a girlfriend or a few toys....

Answer 22

Thank_you DEAR , now maybe you will be worth another try again!   There is a maker up above !

Answer 23

Vibrator or adult friend finder.

Answer 24

One problem is having or thinking you have no options. If you don't, develop some options. Get yourself able to live on your own.

I'm assuming, of course, that you're not a nymphomaniac, which is a specific diagnosis. I doubt it, unless if you had your way, old Johnson would always be raw, and he would scream and curl up on the floor covering his junk every time you looked at him.

I you take him up on his offer, he'll than not only be able to call you a nympho, he be (rightly) able to call you a S****y s**t. Make a plan to bail and carry it out, even it it takes a year or two.  

Answer 25

Order you some 'adult toys' and have fun playing with yourself. That way you are sure to pick up no diseases or get pregnant (from anyone other than your husband). ☺

Answer 26

Too bad I don't live in CA! ! ! !

You are hotttttt and your husband is an idiot!

Answer 27

Your husband is blaming you for his shortcomings which can be either physical or psychological; he needs first to go to a urologist to rule out any physical issues then he needs to go to a professional s*x therapist.

Answer 28

get some toys, rent some p**n and give him some viagra. if he wont take it slip it to him, say its vitamins or something. try going "downtown' for a bit, maybe if you do that every time (i know iknow) but if you start it that way, he may just keep up with you. if not, seriously, invest in TOYS!

Answer 29

seems like hubby isnt interested especially if hes saying for you to go cheat, cmon please!

Answer 30

Try to connect with his heart.  Get to know him better, with topics other than s*x.  Ask him what he likes.  Snuggle with him.  Read next to him.  Show that you want to have s*x with HIM, not just have s*x.  

In the past I had several different girlfriends who were similar to you, i think.  Although I'd give anything to live those days over, since my wife isn't frisky at all, I do remember feeling awkward and resentful when the girls just seemed interested in s*x, but not interested in me.  

Answer 31

He is right. Find a lover, do not torture him by impossible expectations.