My husband complains he doesnt get enough s*x???!!!?

Question

My husband has been depressed lately that our s*x life is not what used to be.... he hates how i act like i dont know what im doing in the bedroom.. when i think that i dont know as much "moves" as does.... and about 6 months ago he said that i wasnt attractive to him anymore coz i put on weight and since then i have become pregnant so i cant do hard core excersicing or deiting to lose the weight... what are your opinions?? i dont know what to do... i love him sooo much... and ever since we got married he hasnt been very romantic... we dont do much together... when i ask him to go for a walk with me he complains bout going outside... he is into his online computer games and xbox and i feel like he'd rather do that then spend time with me...

please any adivce will help..

and please please dont be mean coz im pregnant so im very emotional at the moment.. thank you

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear you're having such problems with your husband. It sounds to me like you both need some marriage counselling. If he makes insulting comments about not finding you attractive because of your weight/size, and about your sexual inexperience, then I feel like he's disrespecting you or maybe even trying deliberately to hurt your feelings, and there's clearly some underlying problem he's not prepared to talk about with you.

Answer 2

let him maried hi computer

Answer 3

Since he's so into the computer games and Xbox maybe challenge him to a game.  Tell him if you win he has to take you out for a romantic dinner.  If he wins he gets to choose.  It's a way to spend time with him, learn his interests and the challenge may be exciting for both of you.