My husband doesn't trust me we've been together for over 5 yrs. and haven't even been married for a month?

Question

I work opposite shifts, he works 7-3, and I usually work 3-1am, I usually go out with my g*y friend after work and have a drink to forget about all of the c**p that happened at work. I do all of the housework and most of the cooking, I've NEVER given him a reason not to trust me. I don't know what to do!

Answer 1

Um he feels this way for a reason.  If he doesn't trust you then that's his problem don't loose any sllep over it.  I can see if you gave him a reason to feel this way.  Men don't like their women to have male friends no mater g*y or not.

He'll b ok

Answer 2

Maybe its the drinks out with other men,they all start off as g*y friends,that's funny, party time is over unless he is invited too,your married now and on the same team right,to much time at the bar without him is causing a problem,is it worth it

Answer 3

Darlin, I'm in the same position that you are. Do what I did. Sit him down and let him know that he's the only man you want to come home to, and if he's jealous of a g*y man, he needs to get his head checked. Bring your g*y friend to the house and show him that he has nothing to worry about. Good luck girl. I feel your pain.

Answer 4

has someone in his past done something to make him a little uneasy with trust issues? if you havent done anything, maybe he is feeling quilty about something and trying to blame you? idk. or maybe thats a sign that he needs more time with you. its hard to say. men are just weird sometimes. just talk to him about it, ask him what his deal is. you have to have open communication for a marriage to work. maybe he's jelous of your g*y friend and wants to be the one you go have a drink with. whatever the reason, you need to resolve it soon otherwise it will get worse.