My husband dosnt express his feelings.i'm really confused if he really loves me?

Question

we recently got married.on the 1st nite my hubby told me he had a past relationship..now thy havent spoken since a year.i can trust him..but the prob is ..he dosnt show any interest in trying to know my feelings nor does he have gr8 interest in s*x.my attempts to have a talk with him has alwaz failed.he ignores me which hurts me a lot.he saz he loves me when he has to get some work done by me...how can i solve my problem and have a happy married life?

Answer 1

if u r worried that ur husband  does not say i luv u to u on every occasion then dear men r just like that . they r less expressive than women .this does not mean that they don't luv their partner. ur husband has been loyal towards u as he himself told u about his previous relationship, appreciate this. it is u who can bring spark to ur married life, communicate, it really helps.may be ur husband will change when a child comes in.

Answer 2

I think  what you have to do is excite him with your different methods, discuss with him about having your own family, your children.Offcourse he care for you and tell him of the declining age to copulate.I thimk you'll definitely have a happy married life.wishing all the best!

Answer 3

Hello richa, probably your husband is still living with the emotional baggage of his past relationship or maybe he is still in the feeling of guilt of his old relationship though he has being frank enough to let you know about it, based on your current nature of relationship, i presume he has accepted marriage between you and him as a compromise and would not be in a state to accept you fully as his life partner, obviously you are trying your best to make him like you

Men do not like to be constantly nagged in a state when they are trying to come out of their old relationship, they best you can do is to behave normal, do not try to impress him too much and find out things that he likes to do normally, try giving him surprises in terms of small gifts, love you notes kept at different places where he can find them with a surprise, do it slowly but, not in one shot.

Post your trial if you still feel things are not working out try speaking up front and know what does he feel about your relationship with him, since you are recently married getting out of a one sided relation is better than it's late, still my suggestion is try your best

Answer 4

the key to any healthy relationship is communication, you need to communicate these feelings to him, let him know how u feel, and talk it out w/him.

Answer 5

Bhautik J given nice answer.

I would like to add some more. First be as a friend build the rappot instead behaving as a wife or fighting for the rights.

Dont let him feel that you are trying to take wife place or forcing him to accept.

Let him feel comfortable and share everything with you. It happens only when you make friendship with him.

I suggest everyone before you become husband and wife first make (become) friendship/friends. Its easy to understand each other coz we can share everything with friends.

Dont force him for s*x but share his feeling and support him. Let him feel that you understand him. I even tell you to forget (treat) him as husband.

It may take some time but will surely solve the problem.

Answer 6

hi richa your husband is worrying about your personality. Please shape your body and expose to him he will definately loves you and whatever you want

Answer 7

ignore him back...

get independent lady...

it's common these dayz...

mcp...

male chauvinist pigs

Answer 8

I have a similar problem to yours but mine is a little different . i ahve been married for 5 years and before wedding and baby hubby was all over me .text messages,email , cards and all but as sooon as we got hitched everything became less and less .he became real quiet and didint want to express his feelings anymore , wont even say i love you unless i ask him to . but he continues to show his love once in a while in doing very simple stuffs like helping and listening to me . what i did . i always tell him that i love him and keep doing the things i used to do . this isnt much of a help but to let you know you are nt the only one  

Answer 9

Can I suggest u something but not on yahoo mail but on yr id.

Answer 10

Was yours an arranged marriage? if it is, you can expect this kind of thing to happen....

Answer 11

Try to understand his likes or dislikes, interests, mood, thinking and many more, provoke him, show yourself.

Answer 12

If your husband is dragging...let him go. One thing people have to understand is sometimes marriage is nothing when it comes to happiness.

You can't have a marriage without happiness it won't be complete. It's a farce.

Do the correct sequence...bail out now before you ruin your life with a man that has no more for you then what is between your legs.