I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old. The little one is always taking stuff away from the older one. He doesn't know how to share yet. And if he gets frustrated, he stars slapping or bitting the other one. One I see this happening I try to separate them or I stop him. My husband in the other hand, is concerned that our older one runs away from the little one when he is chasing him to bit him or hit him. He yells at the older one to no not run, to fight his brother, take the toy back, hit him, punch him, push him, defend yourself. He does it in such a manner that he is yelling really loud, intimidating him. I even heard him tell him tonight to punch his brother in the mouth. To me, encouraging this type of aggresion can be detrimental to his behavior as he grows. I have tried to talk to him about it, even family members have told me that he shouldn't be doing it, he could hurt his brother, but he believes he is just teaching him how to defend himself from a 2 year old. What do you think?
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