I have been with my husband for 7 years <married> and 20 years as his on and off again girlfriend/roomate. I'm 35 years old and he's 37. We are truly the best of friends. But, last night I text my <one of 3 only other best friends> Ryan, and because I hadn't spoken with him <Ryan> in several days, I put "I miss you" and "hugs". The whole text was as follows: Where are you? I miss you Hugs....that's it! Ryan has some issues right now with his 5 year girlfriend <whom I know> and my husband is also pretty decent friends with Ryan. He will come over and watch baseball and eat and hang out with us sometimes. BTW, Ryan is almost 10 years my junior and 12 years my husband's junior. My husband,Chris, has NEVER once shown any form of jealous behavior in our 20 years together. He has no reason to be...I'm an affectionate and emotional person. I hug anyone even remotely close to me...where Chris is not nearly as affectionate as I am. He's the serious one and I'm the fun one. He makes the money and I like to spend it! We are absolutely perfect for each other, but, last night Chris started implying that "maybe something's going on with the 2 of you!" I laughed at first, then realized he was not kidding and I tried to reassure him, but he then was like "maybe you're being too defensive."
What do I do? I've never experienced this jealousy thing from him before. Please tell me that someone out there is familiar with this area! Thank you so much!
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