My husband has a problem keeping an erection?

Question

we never had problems before but lately he gets it going but then half way through it's gone. We do forplay, and get into it and will even watch "movies" but still no luck, he has no problem when it's himself or if it's oral. The only thing I can think is that it was fine before I let him try it anal for the first time and I hated it....never again. So can anyone help?

p.s. today is our 3 year ann. I want it to be a good night wink wink

Answer 1

How old is he? If you both are middle-aged, he should consider seeing a doctor. He may have erectile dysfunction.

Otherwise, if you are young (and I'm assuming you are), he may be bored. Spice up the routine and try something new. Do it in different places that are more exciting. Be spontaneous. Try new positions.

Either way, sit down and talk with him. Open communication is key. Maybe you are doing something that turns him off. This problem can be fixed.

:) Good luck!

Answer 2

cough cough freak cough

Answer 3

i too have a problem keeping it up...it use to be that i would m********e to much to p**n and my wife just was not doing it for me, it was so much easier for me to do it by myself...I say there are pills that you can get at the store that should help a little...or just do a little foreplay and u and him give each oral...it is hard on a marriage I hope that things will work out for u all...

Answer 4

How's his blood pressure lately? High blood pressure can cause erectile problems. It's easier to maintain an erection during masturbation or oral s*x because it isn't as physical. Actual intercourse requires your entire body to be moving and blood can be diverted away from the p***s. If he has episodes of High B/P this can cause him to "lose" his erection.

Check that first. I had the same problem, then got my b/p undercontrol. Now i don't have any problems maintaining.

In the interim, you can try positions that don't require as much moving around such as you being on top, or side lying positions where you are both laying on the same surface.

Answer 5

Use Viagra, Its the ****!

Answer 6

Your first step should be having him see a urologist to make sure that there is nothing wrong.  Any changes in diet, sleep patterns, stress levels, etc. can cause problems.  In some cases, they may give him ED pills (becoming more and more common).

If that doesn't work, then you may want to visit a s*x therapist; obviously you're getting pretty deep (no pun intended); this person may be able to find out what is triggering this on a psychological or other scale.

Good luck.