My husband has been gone for 7 months?

Question

He is deployed. He calls me once a week. Sometimes we do the web cam thing. Just your opinion. Do you think he cheated on me. I mean I know there is not much detail to this question. But do you think men or women can go without s*x for 7 months? I have been married three years. Of those three years me and my husband where always 100% faithful..

Just some opinion Please

THANK YOU

Answer 1

I've gone ten months without and my wife slept right next to me every night. (Yeah, we're still married)

Unless he's given you reason to suspect, quit worrying.

Answer 2

I think that a couple can go without s*x for long periods of time. It would be different if he was at home and not having s*x with you but he is serving his country and trying to do the best for his family. If you can handle it, Im sure he can too...I bet he has other things on his mind being overseas...maybe wondering the same about you...

Answer 3

Idk if he has cheated on you but I can tell you what my husband has done to me.

When we were a couple before marriage and he was in Iraq he was talking to other girls all the time online. I didn't find it out until he got back and a few months later.

He was also on sites then I don't know how many girls he met up with behind my back, I still don't know to be honest.

Then the bomb just got dropped this week he is deployed again and I was on his s/n talking to his dad. When some girl just imed him well turns out she was the gf when he got deployed the 1st time.

So to some it up he was seeing her and me I guess they lost touch when he went to Iraq.

He promised me he told me everything when I busted him with what he was doing online. But he didn't tell me about her. He later this week told me he did. I called him out on it and told his don't play me for a fool if I knew about her from way back in the day we would not be together right now and you know that.

But I wish on my soul girl I knew this all before we got married and had our baby girl. I don't trust him and I told him last week I want a divorce I figure when the trust is gone you have nothing. He tells me he does not want a divorce and is smothern me with I love you and all this c**p.

I have a hard choice I need to make and I'm still leading towards divorce.

That's my story and I'm sure there is more to it I just don't know it all.

So he might be he might not be girl you never know just because they are deployed does not give them the right to hurt a spouse.

Answer 4

well i know alot of the guys out there do a whole lot of maturbating out there soo much so i thinkk they might even make games out of it to keep themselves busy. i wouldn't worry about it too much he's deployed and he's got a whole lot on his shoulders right now that chasing some tail wouldn't come close too. send him some nudy pics to remind him whats waiting back home for him im sure he'll appreciate it

Answer 5

Yes i think if a man loves you he can control himself. Just trust him unless he has given you reason not to.  

Answer 6

I am not accusing you, as I have no idea who you are, but...it sounds almost like you are trying to have an excuse for cheating yourself?

I think that unless he has given you reason to distrust him, then their should be no fears on your part.  Have you stayed faithful?  If the answer is yes, then why couldn't he?  If the answer is no, or if you have thought about cheating...then that sums up why you are asking about your hubby.

Answer 7

the question should be, WHY DON'T YOU TRUST HIM???

why would you think that he'd be cheating???

he is in a war zone... he is going to be more interested in keeping himself safe...

or is it YOU who has been thinking about cheating??? like you say, 7 months without s*x... :D

Answer 8

Sweetie, time and your mind seem to be getting to you...

Im married to a firefighter (I often wander if there's someone he talks to & stuff when he's on duty or working over etc) so I cant even imagine him being a solider.. so first... THANK YOU for your husband keeping us safe and free... 2nd ... I think he's got ALOT more on his mind rather than finding someone to mess around with. Yes, s*x isnt like food or water...

Dont let your mind play games on you...

I think if you look at your track record, you already know the answer =D

Answer 9

Yes, they can be faithful over there, even though some aren't. If he was the kind of man to cheat on you, here or there isn't going to matter, he'll eventually do it anyway.

My husband is military and has gone longer than 7 months with no nookie. I just make sure that first time afterwards is mind blowing. Of course, after 7 months you could be wearing a burlap sack with unshaven legs and he'd still think you were the hottest thing to ever touch him!  So just have fun with it when he gets home. Don't stress yourself out with the "what ifs" and doubts. =)

Good luck!

Answer 10

Are you willing to throw it all away for an o****m.Thank god your not there.I know.USN 1966(V.N.)NYSANG 1979 State Prison Guard Strike Coxsuckie Max Ser Class 2 18 days.I got divorced and didnt do it for 2 yrs...Get a d***o Vib.Dont blow yor relationship.Your friend in New York State.

Answer 11

I don't think he has given reason enough for you to suspect infidelity. He's deployed is all and he likly spends all his spare time thinking of you. Yes a guy can go a long time without s*x when he's in love with his wife. I vote you give him the benifit of doubt until he gives you reason to believe otherwise. :-)