My husband has left me after 12 months of marriage?

Question

my husband has left me after 12 months of marriage,just walked out,i phoned me but he didn't want to talk or work this out.now he phoning me then putting the phone down before i ask the phone also texting me.what should i do about this problem.

Answer 1

No 1...find out why he stormed out...If he was living alone...it would be real hard to walk out on himself...so its something you said or done that set him off. No 2...if you were listening and watching on his reactions, you might learn to stay away of the mechanism that set him off like that. Its good in a way that he walked out. In some males it could have been worse. He walked out 'cause he could not deal or express with the situation. Some guys take it out in much worse ways. You are not perfect sweetie and it sounds like you were part of the problem...so go figure out what you did and fix it. Take Care

Answer 2

ya's need to sit down and work it out between u's...

if u dont no why he got up and left u ... u need them answers even before u build a friendship with the guy... DO NOT agree to getting back together with this guy until u get the answers ur heart needs ion order to forgive him...

if its not going to work out in the end... then at least u can say u tried... get out there with ur girlie friends and have a gd time... do not like him bring u down... hope everything works out how u want it too xx

Answer 3

Just forget about the loser. He's not for you. You guys should have thought out better about getting married. I was married ONCE and I'll never do it again. Just chalk it up as a lesson learned, and next time, think twice before you say ' I do".

Answer 4

get an attorney its over

Answer 5

You lucky girl,this is never going to work,delete this person.He cannot have his cake and eat it,he is not mature /adult enough to face /accept responsibility,you will never be sure of this biological lemon---GET RID--Get on with your life--file for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences.Good luck,you deserve some.

Answer 6

ignore him. let him go. when he knows he doesnt have you ,then he might be courious about what your up to. he doesnt sound like he wants to settle down,do you really want to live with someone like that ?tell him your done with him and you want him to file divorce papers so you can get on with your life. look at each new day without him as a new day to find yourself and be someone that a man wants. tell yourself your worth more and quit giving him power over your emotions.

Answer 7

To Tenebre:

That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard.  In my whole entire life, that thing that you said, right there.

Dumbass.

To Asker:  I think you should ignore him.  He's obviously not a mature, intelligent person.  Texting and phoning?  Are you people in 10th grade?  If you're not like that as well, you'll just ignore it and get your lawyer to serve him a yummy plate of divorce, with a side serving of compensation.

Answer 8

the european couples are often having dilemmas

cos their big egos are included in the roles of the living

my own observation

Answer 9

get a new phone........ with different #

life like that is not healthy. The one on the run always intend to run

They always think the problems will go away if they run