My husband has never said sorry...about anything...?

Question

not when he accuses me falsely...not when he puts me down in his own anger...not anytime. why are so many men like this?

Answer 1

god he sounds like my ex! their jerks, self centered, think their god's gift to women. he almost had me thinking i was crazy, when i decided he was cheating(which he was), had people lying to him about me, he even tried to tell me i was skipping work when i had the freaking pay check stubs to prove i was there. i left almost 3 years ago, and never, i mean never looked back. the only regret i have is leaving my wolves. they passed away without me, and they passed away because of him. that i will never get over.

Answer 2

I can understand your concern, however we learn by example, he is displaying what he was taught. Can he change probably not so you must decide to understand it's not you that is being attacked its a reaction from his learned behavior. There are some good books to read if you want to understand more about men. Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus- Dr. John Gray

Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage -Mark Gungor's

The Five Love Languages Gary Chapman

  

Answer 3

not all men are like that hun, i know with my hubby, if he does anything to hurt me, he always comes and apologizes to me, and that's the way it should be, why not try to talk to him about it, let him know that it is upsetting to you when he does things to hurt you and doesn't find it in his heart to apologize to you about any of it, talk it out.GL!

Answer 4

Men love to be in control.

Chances are he loves the way that your upset about him being this way.

Answer 5

That's so not fair!! I would sit down and tell him that when he learns to apologize it will make your relationship so much better. Tell him that it makes a difference on how you "feel about him". Sometimes people just don't get it that it's really a "big deal". They think that it's just one of your pet peeves. Make sure you tell him exactly how it makes you feel.

You know what? If you have already told him this and he doesn't respect how you feel, then I would go so far to say that  it is emotional abuse.

Here is a site that might help. Take a look and see if he fits any of the other criteria. Not trying to worry you or make a bigger deal of it than what it is, but I am always real careful on this stuff. Good luck to you and hope this helps. http://www.kristensguide.com/Happiness/D...

Answer 6

I think for some people the reason they don't Auy sorry is because they are so ashamed they can't admit it when they are wrong.  I'd take him notadmittingg it as an apology unless he denies being wrong too, that's a problem in itself.

Answer 7

I suppose many men are, but not all, not all by a long shot.  My husband is the sweetest guy in the world.

He's my second husband.  The first was just like yours.

Hint, hint.

Answer 8

Fortunately my husband is very loving  to me, however he NEVER apologizes for anything when we have small spats over silly things.  He doesn't know this but it annoys the h**l out of me.

Answer 9

Because the ones like me who do apologize get crapped on. I just had a kidney transplant and my wife, the reason I had it, decided she doesn't love me anymore. If he loves you don't take it for granted. There are worse things than not apologizing!