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I am 5 months pregnant and we just found out that we're having a little girl! My husband is beyond depressed that our first child will be a girl. We have been married for 5 years with no major marital issues and I feel like his attitude/unhappiness will tear us apart - even before the baby is born! Before we found out what we're having, he admitted that (of course) he wants a boy but will be happy no matter what (as long as the baby is healthy). Now that we know it's a girl, he is acting so bizarre and I don't know how to approach this subject. I am just so sad and hurt because there are people who can't even have children and here he is unhappy with a perfectly healthy baby. He says that he doesn't want to feel this way but he just can't help it. I wonder if he should see a therapist. I feel like I don't even know this man. This should be the happiest time of our lives instead I cry everyday because I feel abandoned (and I am not a emotional person!)...What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!...
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