My husband and I have been TTC for a year now. We are normally so good about communicating and talking things out. Tonight I tried to talk to him about how I feel about all the difficulties we have been having and he told me "don't you think this is hard on me too? You need to stop looking at the negative all the time and think positive. Quit thinking the worse". It is like he won't even let me be upset about the surgeries I have to go through. I have not been told yet that I can't have a baby, but I have to do surgery and a few investigative procedures to find out what is going on. I am hoping for the best, but I am also preparing for the worst. I don't know why he can't just be upset with me and why he has to push away my feelings of being scared and sad. He says, "don't worry it will be fine". I'm upset, I'm scared and I feel so alone. I feel like he is being so insensitive to my feelings. Anyone offer any advise?
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