My husband is bi and we found a guy that both of us have feelings for what should we do?

Question

i just found out that my husband is bisexual. me and him found a guy that both of us care about and he cares about us to. at first we were just going to have a fling with him but instead its kind of turned into a relationship type deal we've been hanging out alot and making out but that's as far as its went so far. i don't know what to do if we should keep doing this or if we should put an end to it. we at least want to be friends with this guy but I'm afraid if we end it we wont even be able to be friends. but i kinda want this relationship to work to cause it will keep mine and my husbands s*x life interesting and all of us care about each other. I'm so confused what do i do???

Answer 1

Do nothing, threesomes never work, never.  Too many emotions get in the way.

Answer 2

there's nothing wrong or strange about polyamory. having a significant (sexual or not) relationship with more than one person is both natural and healthy. but it takes a lot of work. you have to communicate - be open, honest about your feelings (all of your feelings - because jealousy, boredom, hypersexuality, all these will be present, just like in a mono relationship).

check out the yahoo groups lovingmore_lovelist

Answer 3

OK  that sounds hot!  I have had 'relationships' of that nature and they are awesome.  As long as everyone is upfront and talks about what is going on alot it is very exciting, sensual, and intense.

Answer 4

your married for christs sake!

That mean dedicating your life to one person. Not two.  

Answer 5

my bf is bi too ,I can understand you ,just try to have the third as a s*x person