My husband is forcing me to get an abortion.?

Question

Hello, I am pregnant to a set of twins. My husband wants me to get an abortion, he doesnt want me to,he's forcing me. He said i have to go at 12:00 because he already scheduled an appointment with my doctor. It's now 11:45 am. Please help? I already have 4 children. I do not want to get an abortion, because i feel abortion is just another word for murder. He said he cant look after 6 kids, and he's not paying "Double" the bills. We're both very hard-working parents. Please help?

Answer 1

DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! get your tubes tied after you have them and when you can give them up for adoption  

Answer 2

He can't do that. It's your reproductive organs.  

Answer 3

How can you be pregnant when you have a 4 week old? Quit it, we know you're lying.

Answer 4

Well..... my dear...

I am a very much "down-to-earth" person & I would NOT call your husband : "a bully"-or- "commanding"...He's only concerned about the whole family's FUTURE !!! Sorry, to say this, but it IS a free country, so I can voice my opinion....- I am not "on your husband's side", but I would want to ...-REMAIN- in this marriage, so for the financial security alone....-just imagine, what  S I X  children will cost...if all of them want to attend college ???? CAN YOU EVEN IMAGINE THAT ???

Just think about it rationally, honey... Wouldn't yoz rather stay in a stable, financial secure marriage (with this abortion) instead of...a SINGLE  parent with  6  children to raise ...on... YOUR  OWN ???? Well...if I had to decide... I'd be on my my to that clinic swiftly !!!! Believe me... I know,  WHAT  I am talking about.... I had to raise 2 children on my own & honey-child... it was devestating ROUGH !!!! So, be reasonable & give in....4 children is definately : ENOUGH  these days, where the cost of living is skyrocketing !!! Will 6 kids & 2 adults "fit in your car"???? My god...there are  soooo MANY "things" to consider !!! Please...-be realistic- and keep "the peace" at your house ! One more thing : PLEASE get some type of birth-control for the future !!!

Wishing you all the best & a wise desision for the future ! Greetings from Germany with all my love & care.... Annette***

Answer 5

Do not let him force you into this! You will regret it forever. Leave this control;ling man

Answer 6

s***w HIM

Just say ur going to the appointment and go somewhere else

Answer 7

that is MESSED up! no one can force you!

Answer 8

DITCH HIM