My husband is having trouble reaching climax on his own ?

Question

My husband is experiencing trouble reaching climax and/ or ejaculation during masturbation. This is to the extent that recently he has talked of pain in his testicles for the last nine hours or so. He went to talk to medical about his current pain and all they suggestion was that he 'jack off." So in the end they were no help.

I would also like to add that we are unable to have s*x due to the fact that we are thousands of miles apart, so there is no hope of release in that form either. Also I have read that he shouldn't worry about blue balls because your body will just have wet dreams then, but he is experiencing a major case of insomnia.

So with all that being said I will provide more information if necessary, and I have two specific things I was hoping could be addressed. One what if any are some serious and dangerous side effects of prolonged blue balls? Does anyone have suggestions for him to help relieve the pain and discomfort or to reach climax on his own?

Answer 1

lol... make sure you tell him you are so concerned that you had to ask the experts here at Yahoo Men's Health Answers!

There is no long term damage from blue balls, however prolonged masturbation can cause bruising, inflammation or irritation. I highly recommend that he invest in a vibrating fake f***y to tied him over until your return. There are plenty of toys he can choose from.. and perhaps while he is there, he can invest in a little something for you as well. These are always most welcome even in the hawtest of relationships.... as they provide an opportunity for prolonged stimulation, long after he might be physically spent.

The teenagers seem to go for "fleshlights"...  

Answer 2

send him a pair of your soild in panties, something  to remind him of you, have him get one of them p***s sleves that he can put his erect p***s in and just work it until he pops. maybe he is just masturbating too much and the head of his p***s has become very numb from all the jacking off, so he should lay off for a while. e mail him some hot nudes of you masturbating yourselve, using your hand, fingers, toys, etc what ever helps you to get off . guys are very visual.

that should give him enough stimulation hot photos of you masturbating, to m********e to. d**n .. I need a shower now.

Answer 3

Buy him a Fleshlight.

Answer 4

He sounds anxious. This can be a problem. Tell him to relax. Try some breathing excerises and maybe some meditation. He needs to relax. His mind is oing. The fact he misses you is also evident. I would try some phone s*x when he is in a relaxed state. He is putting too much emphasis on this. There is no long term damage that I know of. I am not a doctor. Once he is relaxed he will and should get to his gooooooaaaaallllll. The brain is actually the biggest s*x organ. I would personally smoke a joint, have a couple of drinks, even take a xanax in order to relax. I can actually picture him trying really hard. This is the problem in my opinion.

Answer 5

Don't worry about him.  There are NO serious side effects when this happens once in a while.  His body will take care of everything itself, if he doesn't touch himself and he can get distracted, the discomfort will go away.  He's most likely feeling extremely lonesome and needs s*x.

There are several things he could do if he needs to release his sexual tension:

If your husband needs to ejaculate, he can go to a p**n shop and buy boy toys to use on himself.  There are several things he could do for himself.

While there he could buy anal beads as well so he can stimulate his prostate gland.

He could buy various levels of pornography: from educational/instructional videos, to the severe sexually explicit content.

You guys could talk to each other and have phone s*x.

He can put a cool (not cold) compress on his groin area.

He can soak in a cold bath.

For the insomnia, he should take sleeping pills to force him to go to sleep.