My husband is making up for being out every night. He acts like a slave. I don't like it. What should I do?

Question

I gave him an ultimatum. Stop going out every night or leave. He decided to stay and make up for it. But he tries too hard to please me that it has turned me off completely. I want out.

Answer 1

ok then leave

or compromise, let him go out a few nights (choose the days) and the rest let him spoil you but tell him don't try too hard...or get a little whip and teach him like Pavlov's dog

Maybe you're right, in the end, you're just not going to happy, personality mismatch between you two

Answer 2

ask yourself a deep true question...

do u really not love him anymore?

think of all the good things that you guys did together...

if you really want a divorce,tell him how you feel,or go to marriage counceling,marriages should be FOREVER,i really want to help!

Answer 3

why are you so strict? probably he's turned off by you too.

Answer 4

For better or for worse.

Hmmm

lol

Were you and him serious when you guys said those words

Dont think so Lol

I know the truth hurts

Break out the vows on him and you read the vows also or get them renewed.

Marriage is not like what you was in the disney movies lol!

Answer 5

Maybe he was out because he needed sometime by hisself. Dont jsut jump the gun & tell him to stay home or leave, thats messed up. Next time maybe he would rather leave.

Answer 6

Good heavens you are giving this poor guy mixed signals!

Maybe he has been going out excessively and maybe you did want more company from him, but what ever you said to him has given him the impression, that it is either his freedom or you. So he thought you wanted a lap dog. And now you are fed up with him!

Look compromise is the key in a good marriage. Let him go out and you do the same, say every other Friday. Then on alternative Fridays go out together or have a night in together!

Why didn't you want him going out in the first place? Did he really go out too often, or was it because you were not invited or you were jealous? I think YOU need to sort out what you really want from this relationship.  

Answer 7

TRY BEING RECEPTIVE OF HIS NEW FOUND BEHAVIOR, AT LEAST HE IS TRYING TO SATISFY YOU, BE MORE CONSIDERATE THAT HE IS MAKING AN EFFORT, IF HE STARTS GOING OUT AGAIN, THEN SEPARATE FROM HIM

Answer 8

Tell him to muster up some dignity and knock it off!  Just because you don't want him acting like he's single and going out every night doesn't mean you wanted a spineless kiss a$$.  At least he's trying.  Tell him you appreciate that he's trying to make it up to you, but let's just call it even now, and act normal!

Answer 9

It's not going to last long anyway, they all do that when you threaten them. not long and he's back to his old ways.

Answer 10

You need to figure out what the heck you want. I love it when my hubby is out of my freaking hair and i am sure he loves it when i am too. don't confuse the poor man.... Please try communication, you should be talking to him about this not us

communication leads to understanding, deeper friendship, better s*x, less misunderstanding (i know we women think our men should be able to read us like we can them most of the time but it is not going to happen they dont read minds talk)  

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Answer 11

enjoy it while it last.  just don't come back next time to tell us that your husband don't do sh**

Answer 12

just like a woman never happy