My husband is muslim & i am not, he thinks that we can't have s*x during ramadan as i not muslim, ?

Question

i know we are not allowed during his fast and i fully respect that. but are we allowed during none fasting hours

Answer 1

YES!

I am in the same situation.

My husband is Muslim and i am not.

My husband is very strict when it comes to Islam rules.

We don't kiss, or even touch during his fasting hours.

Even Muslim couples cant have intercourse, or any type of sexual contact during fasting hours.

But after night fall, we do everything normally.

Answer 2

Sorry but life is for living not being guided by some d**n rules out of a book that no one can be sure of its true origin!!!

Answer 3

Permissible to have s*x (only in relationship with Muslim Nikah) in the time from sunset to pre-dawn, in the month of Ramadhaan.

During Fasting hours to be touching, embracing, kissing, etcetera... can result in ejuculation which breaks the Fast.

Answer 4

All I can say is that I agree w/ the 1st answer.

Answer 5

Islamically it is a mans duty to satisfy him wife in bed (and vice versa) as it were as to my understanding, s*x outwith marriage is illegal as we know but s*x between a husband and wife is encouraged as its only natural to have sexual desires. During ramadan though, No s*x during fasting hours.Not sure on the kissing though, would be good to ask a local english speaking imam, over the phone perhaps as it may save embarrasment.

And to clear up some of the other answers here about a muslim having s*x with a non-muslim...

Muslims are only allowed to marry Muslims, Christians and Jews so if you are non-of-the-above, that includes an atheist then under Islamic law, the marriage is illegal.

Answer 6

Your husband is mistaken.  You can have s*x after fasting hours!

Answer 7

Yes you are allowed during non fasting hours, if your known as people of the book i.e Jew or Christian other than that No! Your marriage is not valid

Answer 8

As you are husband and wife yes ofcourse your allowed. but as your not muslim im confused? If you both did the Shahada then yes you should be allowed, show him this! he is islamicly legally your wife if you have indeed got married islamicly and there is no reason why you can not have s*x after fasting hours. if you aren't islamicly married then there's your problem.

Answer 9

its ok to have s*x after at nite,cos u are his wife not his girlfriend.

Answer 10

Yes, its permissable...see Al Qur'an 2:187

Answer 11

it is allowed to practise s*x in ramadan from MAGHRIB (after sun set) to fajr(dawn)

Answer 12

My first question to you is :

1)  Are you from the people of the book e.g. Jews or Christian.

If Yes,

Then you can have it during the non-fasting hours.

Otherwise, even your marriage may be questionable.

Answer 13

shah provide you a good answer

Answer 14

How is he yr husband in the first place? Muslims r not allowed to marry non Muslims.

Answer 15

your husband is wrong, u can have intercourse or whatever when fasting is over for that day.

Answer 16

muslim or nonmuslim you are his wife. he was permitted to marry you because a man may marry a woman of the books. if he was afraid of having s*x in ramadan he needs to be afraid of s*x any other month. . you understand. ? there is no reason to say he cant have s*x with you. if he has s*x with you any other month then this month is no different except he cant do anything during the fasting hours. here is the quran verse. it does not say nonmuslim wives should not have s*x. it says permitted to have intercourse with your wives. that would include you. i dont know who told him these things.

[2:187]  Permitted for you is sexual intercourse with your wives during the nights of fasting. They are the keepers of your secrets, and you are the keepers of their secrets. GOD knew that you used to betray your souls, and He has redeemed you, and has pardoned you. Henceforth, you may have intercourse with them, seeking what GOD has permitted for you. You may eat and drink until the white thread of light becomes distinguishable from the dark thread of night at dawn. Then, you shall fast until sunset. Sexual intercourse is prohibited if you decide to retreat to the Masjid (during the last ten days of Ramadan). These are GOD's laws; you shall not transgress

them. GOD thus clarifies His revelations for the people, that they may attain salvation

Answer 17

you cant toucha nd kiss have s*x while your fasting.

but once you have broken your fast then you can.  

Answer 18

My dear sister Hannah,salam for you.Yes during fasting you are not allow to have s*x and kiss with lust with your husband.But at night you can have s*x normally.If you have s*x during fasting your husband should have to fast 60 days consecutively after ramadan.

Sorry I will advise you that for a harmonious and happy family it is better if you convert your religion without force to Islam.You can learn and understand how well and how complete Islam as a modern religion for all humans.We have the life guide the Qur'an and Hadits as an updated guide after Allah (God)given the old holy books Zabur,Torah and Injil(Bible) which haven been outdated and changed by dirty hands.

Answer 19

u relation   is haram because ur non muslim and ur husband is muslim

Answer 20

Yes you can during the time that he is not fasting.

Answer 21

no  if ur married it is fine between the hours of sunset and sunrise but maybe ur husband is trying to be ultra good and abstaining totally my hubbie used to be ultra religious during ramadan and keep s*x to the minimum he could manage ie when he was desperate.  

Answer 22

yes u may between fotoor time and before fajer

but kisses arent haram during fasting  

Answer 23

you can't make no contact with him

Answer 24

I am a non-Muslim married to a Muslim and yes you can have s*x after the fasting hours and before the fast begins again.  I'm not sure if it is in the quran or a hadith and I would have no idea what passage it is, but it says something to the effect that if a Muslim man marries a non-Muslim(those he is allowed to marry) then he should treat them as if they were Muslimah's(this means to give them the same benefits, etc.)  Good luck getting him to understand this.