Does his "OUT OF NOWHERE" behavior/ feelings have to do with the PTSD? He was in the Marines for 4 years and got out this past January. He was deployed twice to Iraq and the first time he received the Purple Heart for his wounds in action. His personality changed shortly after getting out of the service, but it was a subtle change, kind of like, "Oh, this is civilian life now." It has taken a drastic turn in the past couple of months. I think he is just confused...he has told me he doesn't know what he wants, then he tells me he thinks he wants a divorce, then this morning, after our oldest sons doctors appt, he helps me load them into the truck and hugs me?? What is his deal? My life is being shredded to pieces! We have two children together and I don't want this to be over. He is the LOVE OF MY LIFE!! I have stood by him and supported him through thick and thin, I love this man like there is no tomorrow. I am so hurt...we will be married 4 years September 13. Any advice? I'm doing all I can on my part to try to save this marriage, asking advice from family and friends, speaking with our priest...he hasn't agreed to counseling, and I think that's because he will then have to admit he has a problem. I am even following through with going back to college. I start September 2nd...GO ME! I am currently staying with my mom...and I hate it! I just want my husband back. Is it related to the PTSD or is that just an excuse I am looking for to give the man that I love an easy out? I don't want to lose him!
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