My husband keeps asking me to tell him what I want in the bedroom, how can I tell him if I don't know?

Question

I can tell him what I like or don't like. And what I want more or less of but if I haven't experienced anything but him, how am I supposed to know?

Answer 1

u just need to try different things with him, and then ul know!!

Answer 2

Man - "What do you want, would you like something different"

Translation - "I'm getting board with our run of the mill s*x life, I would like to spice it up but I'm afraid my ideas may scare you, so what would you like to do to change it up". Get the picture. There are several way's that you can add things to your marriage. Watching p**n is a good way to view different things, but not always good for a marriage, if you have any friends that you are open with, is a better way.  

Answer 3

i agree, watch p**n.

if you get all tingly when you see a certain part, say you want that.

when you fantasize, what is it about--build from there.

Answer 4

Watch p**n and get some new ideas.  

Answer 5

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http://www.sextutor.net/gspot1.htm

http://www.sextutor.net/female1.htm

Answer 6

Both me and my wife were each others first, and that was definitly not an issue. But hey, go to cosmopoliton.com or get the magazine. Me and my wife got some tips there, but to be honest, we found most of them before seeing it in a magazine. Go through the site with him. Ask him what he would wanna try, and you choose something. Try both, and then tell him what you liked most. It will not take long to figure out what you like and not like.

Answer 7

How could u not know?   What feels good to you, what makes you feel s**y?

Trying going for the 69 and see how he likes it.

Tell him, to do whatever his heart desires.

Answer 8

Trying different things is always healthy.

Be honest to him and tell him that you would like to try this or that...Things you think you will like.

I think it is very nice of him to ask that.

Answer 9

Make up something, that will keep him occupied.

Answer 10

Tell him you are into S&M.

Answer 11

You need to spend some time fantasizing. Think about what you think might feel good or be fun and then tell him what you thought about. If you are in bed with him and he does something that feels good, tell him right there, or more. If he does something that doesn't feel right, tell him. Don't be crass, just suggest that he do something else that you like. I wouldn't watch p**n because it is not realistic. You can read some romance novels which talk a little bit about carresses and kisses, etc. Or just use your imagination. Nothing is too dirty or too taboo. If you want to do it, try it.  

Answer 12

Tell him that you would like to try new things with him but you aren't sure what to suggest.  Pick up the current Cosmo at the store and try some positions or tricks they list.  These are usually on the safe side and not too kinky.  If you find that this is to your liking, you can expand to more exotic things.  You can also pick up a Kama Sutra book at your local bookstore.  Your husband is obviously concerned with making sure that you are enjoying an intimate relationship with him.  This is a great sign, enjoy it!  

Answer 13

Maybe what he wants is for you to talk dirty to him. In other words tell me what you want = tell me to F*** your brains out while we are doing it.

Or it could be he is bored and is hoping you will say. Put it to me in a different way."

Answer 14

You tell him that!

Answer 15

time to experiment. tell him to do what ever he likes. Pick the things you like and go from there. Maybe it will give you some ideas on things you like also. try everything. You never know what might tickle your fancy

Answer 16

This is one place in a marriage where lack of communication can cause a whole slew of other problems. Obviously, if you are an adult and you're having s*x, you know what your preferences are. You know if you like slow, soft s*x or passionate, hard s*x. You know where you need to be touched, etc.

I think what's really going on is that your husband wants to spice up your bedroom play and doesn't want to suggest stuff or seem to pushy. I'd suggest maybe doing some shopping for books, videos, etc TOGETHER. Try to keep an open mind. Laugh with him at things you think are ridiculous. Keep it light and fun. You may find some things that you really enjoy.

Suggestion: Get on Ebay. There is a "mature" category. That way, you don't have to feel intimidated by going to a store.  Good luck and have fun!!

Answer 17

try saying anything

then say something like , I want to try it in the rear.  then try it and see if you like it

then say something like, i want you to eat me dry clean and pluck one out between your teeth

then let him try it and see if you like it  

just tell him stuff and try it.........

Answer 18

Tell him to try different things and you will tell him what you like .