My husband left last night after a fight and now over 24 hours later I still dont know where he is. We have?

Question

been married for a month.

Answer 1

i would be worried if i were you too and not only mad from the fight but also mad that he wasn't considering your feelings at all by being gone so long and not contacting you. i'm sure he's fine, woman also tend to worry more then men he's probably just mad and not thinking rationally right now. he'll come around though, just give him time. in the meantime, just think about the fight and weather or not you think it can be resolved. don't drive yourself crazy over it, just know what you're gonna say when he comes home and take things from there. good luck and feel free to email me if you need anymore advice =)

Answer 2

Start packing your bags, you have little time invested and if this is the beginning, just imagine what the middle and the end of this trip will be like.  

Get out while you can!

Answer 3

Off to a happy start eh?  He left because of something you said or did. If he was living alone...he would not walk out on himself.  You could not have you acknowledge what he was communicating...Basically you are insensitive to him...Look marriage is very hard work...You don't get married and live happily ever after...it does not work that way. You need to figure each other out...Take Care

Answer 4

Did he ever do this before you got married? Does this fit his temper?

When he comes home I would definitely let him know that he needs to call so that you don't worry. Time to yourself to calm down is one thing, but leaving the other person with no idea where you are or when you'll be home is inconsiderate.

I hope you hear from him soon.

Answer 5

he'll come back when he's hungry or needs to change clothes, don't worry he'll be back

Answer 6

Just be calm. If there is bad happen, some one will inform you. Young couple have their own issues. Just discuss it with different circumstance. Be patient with each other. Good luck.

Answer 7

Ugh.  How crappy.  Have you texted him?  Maybe he's hurt.  I don't want to worry you but maybe you should make some calls.

Answer 8

sometimes people just need to blow off steam maybe he met up with his friends and had a few beers thats not the problem though the problem is your acting like its the end of the world you  should have alife aside from him your own source of income friends go back to school have a lot of intrests dont end up with 3 kids no job skills no friends with 5.00 in the bank  DO NOT MAKE THIS GUY YOUR EVERYTHING make a list of your ideal life pretend hes not in the picture pretend you could do anythig example be a hairdresser live in a nice condo have some really good friends get together play cards one nite a week have a movie nite get pizzas laugh take up a hobby example cooking dancing find a nice church a kool one volunteer at someplace a couple hrs once amonth do something you would never do go to a sports event like baseball get a complete makeover   warning though you will have every man on the planet madly in love with you    above all It  Is a sin to be unhappy the GOOD LORD  wants us to be filled with joy and a great heart pray and ask your GOOD FATHER what HE wants you to do with your life  HE will give you wisdom  GOD BLESS

Answer 9

I agree that you need to start making some phone calls to try and locate him especially if this is not normal behavior for him.Best of Luck to you and hang in there,marriage does get better,you just have to work out all of the kinks(it usually takes a good year).

Answer 10

There is obviously a huge lack of communication here.. and also some immaturity and control issues. He should certainly understand your feelings that you'd be worried about him. Or maybe there's more to the fight and the relationship than we know. If the fight was over something small and he chose to leave for so long then you've got a problem on your hands and need to get counseling with him.

Answer 11

hope he dont come back

Answer 12

You need to call his family and friends and see if you can locate him. I can' t believe you have been married only a month and had a quarrel that would make him stay gone that long. Investigate yourself and see if you can find him asap!

Answer 13

give him some time...but let him know that its okay to go for a walk and cool off after a fight.But don't disappear for day(s) and not call.

Answer 14

Most likely he blowing off steam somewhere or making you worry. But if he doesn't come home soon report it to the Police.