My husband left me for a girl young enough to be our daughter. I have been to h**l?

Question

I have been so so so sad, and he has behaved appalingly, absolutely terribly, I've had her sending me text messages calling me a sad old cow, they drive past my house all the time, and they shop at the supermarket 100 yeards away from my home.. so I have made up my mind, its the only thing I think of.... I will be there at that supermarket next Saturday morning, and I will go up to him and I will punch him so hard in the face, he will probably never get up again.... that's it... end of story... anyone want to say it's wrong?

Answer 1

You go, girl!

Having said that, the question is, do you want him to come back to you when he realises what a mistake he has made? Only you can know whether punching him in the face is more likely to make him respect you or hate you.

The best revenge is to be happy. Trite, but true!

Answer 2

It's SUPERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR right!

Answer 3

Although punching him would feel really good -- he and his new "girlfriend" could press charges against you and make your life an even MORE living h**l.

Better yet, save all those text messages, document all the times they drive by your house and take as many pictures as you can.  Then take the documentation to your attorney and have a restraining order slapped on them.  Oh, it won't be long until they do it again, then call the law on them and have them locked up.

Answer 4

Depends whether you value your dignity above a criminal charge of common assault.

Answer 5

Your husband took the bait...he's stupid.

Your the smart one here. Just let it go and move on with your life. Now it's time for you to take care of you.

Your husband...he has other problems down the road. He just doesn't understand what missed opportunity means yet.

Answer 6

He sounds like he went for a girl at the same maturity level. Just be civil and talk to them like you would anyone that age be an adult and let the kids learn to be adults.

Answer 7

Punch him then you will go to jail.. Move on with your life by being the bigger person.

Answer 8

I don't think it will make you feel any better or hurt any less and possible repercussions could be hard to deal with.  

Take the higher road.

Answer 9

Nope...you make sure that you get him really good and if she runs her mouth then I would do it to her too! People are such asses and it wasn't bad enough that they disrespected you but to flaunt it. I would have already done it. I hope you take him for all he is worth. What an ***!

Answer 10

Go girl! And slap that sill cow while your at it. Shame you wern't in a hardware store you could have hurt him even more.

Or kick him in the nuts. With high heels

Answer 11

Well if he took up with a girl as young as his daughter he is a pervert, in a way!  

Get a divorce, do not provoke him, just clean him out financially, he will not be able to afford that sweat young thing on what he has left.  

Then get yourself a young stud and parade him around town and the both of you can look like fools.

Answer 12

Nice one and good luck to you.

Answer 13

Yes - violence never solves anything.  If he presses charges you could end up with a criminal record and he and his girlfriend will be laughing so hard at you.  I know it's hard but the best thing to do is to rise above their stupid pettiness.

Answer 14

What about a good alimony from him!! Don't let yourself get hurt from those silly people. Buy shoes, read books, see movies, call old frnds, hit the gym,buy jeans, buy a cocktail dress, do pottery,talk to mom.....and if you want you can start dating again.Do what you want.

Answer 15

I personally think you should save the texts and take them to the police and file harassment charges.

Answer 16

try to take the high road until you take everything he has in the divorce hearing.  then with that money, hire some high school kids daily to follow him around and make fun of the old guy with his daughter.

Answer 17

Don't give him the satisfaction that it bothers you.  Like I have told my cheating ex........Karma has a way of catching up.  It's hard and takes time...but it does get better and you are better of without him.

Answer 18

THAT WORKS, that way he will press charges and you will be in jail and wont have to see them out together anymore for quite a while.

Answer 19

he deserves a smack in the gob and so does she, but, do not get yourself into trouble over them, that will give them all the more to gloat about.  Get yourself all dolled up go to the supermarket the next time you know they will be there, walk by them smile and say hello.  Just carry on doing your shopping and act as if you really don`t care.

The hurt will go away, it takes time, but what kind of man is he doing that to you, he is not worth it and wait and see he will end up getting hurt.  It is a true saying " what goes round, comes round"

Answer 20

No, its not wrong. If I were you, I would knock the h**l out of him too. But please be ready for what he may do about it, he might even call the authorities and  have you arrested but.....it will be worth it just to know you have put his lights out, at least once.

Answer 21

Vengeance is a dish best served cold. You could easily finish up with a criminal record.  Think about it .

Answer 22

thats what he wants! i know how you feel trust me, but you have to get the courage to be the bigger man and resist being permanently pissed off. do something for yourself that will make you feel better and erase him out (i know its easier said than done, seeing a therapist could really help!)

Answer 23

yes go and punch him! he deserves everything he gets the scumbag!...and the nasty little madam will soon shut her face when he leaves her for someone else..once a cheater always a cheater..!!!!!oh and change your number so she cant contact you anymore.

ok...seriously...maybe dont punch him (although he really deserves it) , go out and find a nice man who will treat you right and start your life again...and be happy!!!

Answer 24

thats awful

wait a sec im gonna edit my answer

edit: have faith in god he will take revenge for you

  "  Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. (20) On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” (Romans 12:19)

Answer 25

Go for it if it makes you feel better.  Otherwise, just shop at another supermarket and try to get on with your life.  Get out, socialise etc, meet another man and then he'll be the jealous one.

Answer 26

They sound like they dont have much going on in their lives! I mean what a waste of time on their part! You should ignore them...the most annoying thing for them would be for it not to bother you! So dont let it.

He'll do the same to her...once a cheater always a cheater!

Answer 27

Tempting, isn't it? But do you really want to stoop to their level? YOur revenge will come soon enough. He will eventually become too old to keep up with her - in ever so many ways - and she'll dump him for someone younger & more virile. In the meantime, you need to get out and make a new life for yourself. Even though you are a little older, there are still plenty of fish in the sea. Don't let him get to you. Focus on making your life better. Move away & let him go. He's not worth another minute of your time. What a jerk!

Answer 28

No I wont say it's wrong at all, if it helps you deal with the pain...just be happy he is out of your life, he sounds very very nasty and it seems they are well matched...however i would like to say..you could really get your own back on him in another way. You could just be indifferent to both of them and be successful in whatever it is you want to do..I wish I could be at that supermarket to cheer you on.

Answer 29

why give him that kind of power over you? change your cell #. shop at a different store. divorce him and take his money to pay for the changes you make...

Answer 30

You know the fact they are trying to provoke you means they are trying to prove they are good for each other... They probably do Not have a good solid relationship and atm it is based on fakery. They are using you as the exuse to counteract their bad relationship.. hence driving past and sending the text messages.

I say... you say "Blow it, I want to go to France, I want to party my **** off and drink champagne for breakfast" Do something You really love... lifes too short and hes obviously a headcase... so's the little "princess" hes decided to ruin the life of.

Answer 31

That will makes things worse for you. It won't help your emotions to heal and maybe you should wait a little longer. You might calm down a bit and realise he ain't worth the trouble.

I think you should expose him on Liarscheatsandbastards.com.

Also, make him a nice facebook profile - upload his photo's onto ebay and sell the dirty perv. Expose the nasty pig. There must be something wrong with her head to want to date an old man. I hope she's fleecing him for all his cash and he ends up on his ar$e with nothing.