we are in and the state of it.
I became extremely depressed for the year i was pregnant through our sons 7th month. One day out of the blue my husband turned to me in the kitchen and said,
"I'm leaving."
He had rented an apt for him and our son and they were leaving that night. I begged him to stay through the weekend and talk to me because he had never indicated that there was a problem and had consistently continued to tell me how much he loved me and to make plans for our immediate and long term future. i told him I thought it was just fair that he give me a chance to talk to him and try to figure it out. That Monday I was placed on anti depressants and things became instantly better. i am still on the meds and things are going great, just like it never happened.
Except I have huge trust issues, I never know if he is telling me the truth about his feelings because of the lies he told during my depression, i am constantly afraid that he is going to turn to me and tell me he is leaving again, always second guessing myself and him, and I often have the random though that I hate him for lying the way he did and going about the situation the way he did. Even though I understand WHY he did it the way he did it, and I DON'T hate him, not even a little.
What can i do to start trusting him again and get over this?
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