My husband likes butts, the problem is.....?

Question

He is very kinky, he likes to touch, l**k, and wants to stick it-(won't let him) , he wants soo badly for me to let, him, but I am scarred, I've heard that it hurts and bad things can happen?! Is this true???

Answer 1

lmao!!...try it...n yes it can be painful lol...but you'll end up liking it..if u don't then tell him and don't do it again.

Answer 2

Usually it only hurts if you do it wrong.  Read up and do your research, if you get it right the o****m is an OMG fantastic one!

Answer 3

You are scared...not for the physical impact and its consequences but this is NOT you. Never do anything that YOU do not agree with. you will regret it down the road.

Answer 4

there are pages that can give specialized advice... but if he wants to penetrate insist on plenty of lube (i.e. ky) and that he goes slowly and gently... and btw... liking anal s*x is no longer even a little kinky.

Answer 5

My wife and I ahve anal s*x 2-3 times a month for the last 8 years.  No ill effects yet.  She said it hurt the first two times and after that it does not not and she really enjoys it when she is in the mood.

Answer 6

There are things that can happen, but they are rare, and unless your man is beyond well endowed I doubt you will have a problem. Tip: use lube, lots of it. Just when you start to think that you have enough on him and you, add more. The more the better. Also, it wouldn't hurt to have a few drinks first to help relax your body... and try doing it with you on top first. Then you control how far in it goes and all that. It is also (in my opinion) the most comfortable position for that kind of intercourse.

Just remember, you are the only person he sleeps with... why not make his wildest dreams come true? ;) Good luck!

Answer 7

Never really saw the allure of this.  I guess I'm just a prude. The thought of doing something that would be painful to my wife is pretty must of a turn off for me, but it sounds like others have had good experiences. Just don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If he loves you he'll drop it if you really dont want to go there.  

Answer 8

i dont see why guys like anal s*x so much. i really REALLY dont see why they are so wild about it. i say just try it before he tries it with someone else. because he really seems like he really wants it bad.

Answer 9

Anal. Well, there's a lot of issues regarding hygiene and safety.

1. It's an outlet, not an inlet. Of course it'll hurt.

2. There are bound to be traces of f***s

3. Danger of over-stretching the tissues and muscles hence constipation

4. Possibility of infection, due to bacteria. Especially when he didn't clean himself and inserts his p***s into the v****a.

Of course, there are ways of coping with it.

1. lubricant

2. dams, a barrier when he licks to prevent infection

3. relax, trust issues

Answer 10

MY fiancee does the same and it does hurt a little the first couple of times, the trick is to concentrate on something else( I count to ten until the pain disapates). Eventually you will decide if you enjoy it or not. I enjoy when it is done right, but it HAS to be done right otherwise it, yes, is very painful( kind of like s**+**ing backwards..haha).

Answer 11

Not many bad things can happen, just let him try to stick it, he's your husband for god's sake.

Answer 12

you need to want to do it to do it otherwise it will really hurt. if you do.. you need lube..also you can get kidney infections from anal s*x so be careful. And dont let him go in the back and then go in the front or you will be sick.

try it you may like it.

Answer 13

g*y men like butts too.

Just let him know that every time he goes there.

Trust me, if he is anything close to a red-blooded hetero his little soldier will drop quicker than a atom bomb.

If he proceeds, you got bigger problems on your hand.

Answer 14

Some like it, some don't....if done right it won't be sooo bad...read up on it and give hubby a shot with the promise that if you say stop he DOES!

Answer 15

Tried it once.  NEVER again.  He can stick it in a wall for all I freaking care but it's not going in my behind.  No thanks very much.

Answer 16

No... not if u dont want it to=)