My husband likes to cuddle and love on me but.?

Question

i dont like it when some one is all over me and if i say somethin about it he gets all mad wat should i do?

Answer 1

Snugglin' is good stuff............

Answer 2

Well, when you get mad that is the same thing as rejecting him. Maybe the two of you could have certain times to cuddle, but i'm a very affectionate guy and right now i go after women who like it.

Answer 3

Some times my hubby gives me more attention than I want.  It used to bother me earlier in our marriage and make me feel kind of smothered, but now that I'm older I don't see it as a problem.  Maturity makes you overlook the little things.  There are bigger compromises that you make along the way to be happy together.  It's not a big deal.  As long as your hubby is a good guy and thoughtful and kind, it wouldn't kill you to accommodate him when he wants to spend a little bit of time w/ you.

Answer 4

let s trade that character about our husband cause that is the only thing i hate about him. he doesnt like to cuddle and i long for that .  

Answer 5

wow... you dont like to cuddle.. thats a shame, your missing out on soooooooooooooo much lovin.............. cuddling is so wonderful.. it says I love you without it needing to lead to s*x...... do you know how many women would give up a limb to be cuddled???????????   I have a cuddler and I LOVE IT..... please change how you think about cuddling... and when you tell him to stop... it is rejection, no matter how you look at it,,, wow, if you dont want a cuddler, dump him, you probably wont ever find another one that loves to cuddle, they are far and few  between.  

Answer 6

My hubby is like that too and like you I tend to feel a tad smothered.  Fortunately we talked about this when we were dating and now when he wants to cuddle he asks me.  I found that when I'm in the mood for it I really do enjoy it and he gets his physical closeness all at the same time.  Bottom line, you are going to have to talk about it...and not while it's happening.

Answer 7

Wow...usually the woman is upset that the man doesnt want to cuddle. You found a cuddler. You probably knew he was all along, and at some point found it cute or loving. Just remember that you onced liked it and he probably feels like you are brushing him off. I know when my husband wont cuddle with me, I feel like Im not getting enough affection. Give him a few minutes... it wont hurt. Good luck

Answer 8

Usually woman get upset when their lover don't give them physical attention. Don't take this the wrong way but your husband isn't just someone. He is your husband. Just let him cuddle with you. Kiss him a little and thats that. Give him a chance. If he is doing that, it means that he adores you, loves you and wants to be with you. You should be grateful. There aren't many guys like that out there. By telling him you don't like it that can really hurt him. Give him a little loving and just gently tell him that you don't like to over due it. Ok. Good luck.