My husband lost my wallet with $400 my ID & S.S card. I just can't let it go what can I do to forgive him?

Question

It wouldn't be so bad if this was the first time he lost money, but he does it alot, and we were at the same store checking out in diff. places when he lost it. I just feel he is sooo irresponsible and did I mention I was pregnant, I don't know how he will be with the kid if can make such "silly" mistakes!

Answer 1

he didn't lose it, he "says" he lost it, lol!

he blew the 400 bucks on some hooker (or plans to blow), threw out the wallet, and claims he lost it to cover his butt...

oh, he does this often?  how did I know that, lol!

lady, wake up...  you KNOW what he's doing with the money...

Answer 2

1. Why do you have your husband carry YOUR wallet?

2. If he loses money a lot then refer to #1.

3. If you feel that he is so irresponsible then again, see #1.

4. What in the world does you being pregnant have to do with it?

5. Believe me, there will be plenty of mistakes you BOTH make when the baby arrives.  

Answer 3

Cheat with me and you won't be thinking about this little problem the only thing on your mind will be the next time we can hook up, he's a fool.

Answer 4

sounds like too me u should be a big girl and buy a purse  

Answer 5

Jessica you seriously Need to Shut UP!!

It was an accident!!  Get over it and get over yourself!!

ACCIDENT!!

Answer 6

oh, so you must be the only perfect person in the world that's never made a mistake. get off your high horse lady.

Answer 7

I don't know that at this stage in your life that anyone can teach you to "forgive" and just let it go.  It sounds like your mommy / daddy spoiled you (used to getting your own way) and someone convinced you that you are perfect (near perfect).

The rest of us though, learned to forgive in childhood.  It is an understanding that nobody is perfect, including ourselves.  It is an understanding that mistakes will happen, disappointment will happen and that if we are incapable in forgiving people their mistakes we will have a very LONELY existence in this world and nobody will won't to be around us.  Get over it.

Answer 8

MAKE HIM PAY YOU BACK THE $400.00,AND THEN HAVE HIM GO WITH YOU TO THE POLICE STATION N TELL THEM WHAT HAPPEN,,CAUSE COULD B HE REALLY DIDNT LOOSE IT,,PEACE

Answer 9

are you serious, he lost your wallet not your marriage, girl get over it those thing can be replaced, but not your marriage grow up, every one makes mistakes, an no ones relationship is perfect, next time don't give him the money it sounds like if he is doing it all the time he has a pattern, so why don't you try being a little patient with him instead of disrespecting him, that is your husband you don't do that.just be lucky your still married that is what is important, keep that way for you and you new baby, money comes and goes anyway you can not take it with you when you die, what done is done you cant bring it back or change what has already happen

Answer 10

You cannot forgive because of 400 dollars, what will you do if you caught him cheating on you, kill him

Answer 11

Why did he have your wallet.  It was a mistake, let it go!  It's not like he cheated.

Answer 12

I think you should divorce him and chop him up in little pieces and feed him to your dog

Answer 13

What was he doing with your wallet in the first place?  Everyone makes mistakes.........lighten up on him and move on.  If that is all you have to worry about, then consider yourself lucky.

Answer 14

Oh my!  There are worse things that could happen.  So your life is inconvenienced for a few weeks.  Give me a break.  You are a ball buster...i feel bad for your husband.

Answer 15

it was an accident--omg--let it go--cancel ur accounts--is that the WORST thing that could ever happen to u--jeez!!

Answer 16

What was he doing with your wallet in the first place, my guess it was to keep you from losing it so what difference does it make suck it up and get over it already.

Hi Martina you sure are looking good today babe

Answer 17

Oh. My. God. Divorce him.  Do it now!!

Answer 18

He didn't do it on purpose...keep telling yourself that. Imagine the shoe on the other foot....be a forgiving person. In love/marriage you're suppose to be.

Answer 19

Silly Mistakes!

It sounds like YOUR silly mistake was giving him your wallet!

What's up with that?

Answer 20

It was an accident!!

For the sake of your marriage and sanity - LET IT GO!

Answer 21

You get over it and realize people make mistakes.

How can you hold a grudge against your husband for accidentally losing something?  This is asinine!!  It's not like he lost your things on purpose.  Get over it!

Your marriage won't last long if you're going to be so petty.

Answer 22

What your ID too! I'd kill him, go get the gun!

Your an idiot! He's better off dead......lol!

Answer 23

First of all...I think You May need to Grow Up.....I hardly doubt you are 'perfect'

If it was you who lost something of your husband's, wouldn't you want him to forgive you?

Answer 24

ummmmm realise that its NOT A BIG DEAL! sh*T happens! he probably feels bad enough.... why dont u make him feel better instead of being bitter and mad about sucha silly mistake!

Answer 25

I highly doubt he lost it on purpose! You have nothing to "forgive"

Answer 26

Think about if you accidentally lost his wallet...you would probably expect him to forigive you.  IT's a mistake.  

Answer 27

I've been married for a little bit now, and I can honestly tell you this, pick your battles. He didn't mean to lose it, it wasn't intentional, and I'm sure he feels terrible about it. There are so many things that he could have done that are much worse than losing your wallet. Don't let something that is replaceable drive a wedge between you and your husband. And stop letting him hold your wallet.

Answer 28

if that is the worst thing he ever does you are a lucky woman! it was an accident, they happen. let it go. and why the h**l was he carrying your wallet anyways?

Answer 29

what a terrible thing to do! how could he? that p***k!

Divorce him...immediately!

ROFL

Grow up