My husband and I have been through h**l and back. But he recently found out that during a very bad time in our marriage, 10 years ago, I became friends with a man. We were just friends. My husband would take the car and then not pick me up at work. I'd wait for hours but he would never show up. This person would see me waiting and crying almost everday. After the third or fourth time he would sit and wait with me, while I tell him what my situation was, my husband had become a drug addict. One night he kissed me I stopped it immediately. Nothing ever happened. But now my husband found out and he believes in his heart that I had an affair with this man and may leave me if not now in the future. I never said anything because nothing ever happened.
His heart is broken and feels that he drove me to another man. But NOTHING HAPPENED so he doesn't know whether he's going to leave me or not because of this. I don't know how to make him believe that I ALMOST MADE A MISTAKE BUT I CHOSE NOT TO, BECAUSE i love him.
Right now our home is very sad and I don't know what to say to him. I don't think that anything I say or do will make him feel better. So I am staying to myself but I don't want to loose him.
What can I do?
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