My husband has such a different approach to parenting, and we're having a hard time coming to a compromise.
I cannot let my son cry. If I hear him cry (he's 5 months old) I figure out why and fix it, ASAP. I dont think that's "babying" him or "spoiling" him. I think that's being the mother of a 5 month old. My husband think my son cries "-for fun". and thinks that if he doesn't have tears then nothing is wrong.
That's just one thing in the 100s of things we differ on. He comes from a single parent household where his mother worked hard to support him on his own, and he didn't get any babying or special treatment becaue he was a child. Because of that, he views my normal childhood as coming with a "silver spoon" - it didn't, but i can't argue the fact that I had it easier than he did. How can we effectively combine our ideals to give our son a consistant parenting style? He's stubborn and I feel like if I change, it's at the expense of my son...which is not something i'd do.
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