My husband...please help.?

Question

ok, i dont really know why..but lately i have not really been wanting to be with my husband. I love him and still want to be married. but i dont know, Before i felt this way, i would greet him when he got home for work..i always held his hand...just all the little things that a wife does. But now i find myself sleeping on the couch..if he gets home late from work i dont care.

I know that he is noticing the difference and he thinks that i dont love him anymore..

WHATS WRONG?

Answer 1

Sounds like things are becoming a bit Stale in your marriage and feel like you need a bit of a change.  Try to spice things up a little.  You could suggest going out together more often, then try to re-light the passion that you at some point must have had.  Good Luck. x*x

Answer 2

You could be in a state of boredom in this marriage. Maybe, you feel that the relationship has become stagnant. Try and introduce some spice and variety into the relationship and see if it works. Good luck.

Answer 3

tough one. first id have to ask,, whats your age. how long have ya been married? how young were you when yuo married. there are som many things that can factor into this equation. could be that you feel like your bored in life and seek something different. this seems to often happen after each begin to just feel used to each other. kinda get settled into a routine and then those just always get boring. you need to run away from boring and start in with spontaneous. try something you have never tried with him or for him before. Let him know that this feeling you have isn't one that you want to keep having. Never easy, almost always worth the diffculty.

Answer 4

maybe you should try to take time out with yourself.. like go jogging,, have dinner with friends, or watch a movie.. or better yet if your hubby has time you could do these thing with him..  just to get sumthing going with your life.. good luck!

Answer 5

Boredom, repetitiveness..if it keeps up he may just not show up from work.

How to fix it..only you and him know.

Answer 6

Why don't you want to be with your husband? you're probably bored and stuck in a rut. Take the initiative yourself and plan something fun for the two of you together, and spice up your love life as well, you'll soon remember why you fell in love with him in the first place and he will feel better.

Answer 7

You're bored.  Trust me, I know the feeling.

Answer 8

Your board in your marriage. The two of you need to do something to spice things up. Maybe you two should take a romantic vacation get-away just the two of you.

Answer 9

your taking things for granted, I would suggest counseling before it goes too far.