Hi everyone, I have 3 sons and they are ages 4-10.Here is the problem...my DH refuses to offer any structure or discipline.We end up in screaming matches over this because I feel that the boys need there father (as well as me) to guide them & teach them respect.My oldest one "bows" up @ me and constantly sasses me.I attempt to spank or punish while my husband stands by and either watches or ignores the whole situation!!!!My 10 year old is a BIG boy.He is almost as big as I am and he scares me.My husband says that his lack of interferance is because of an incident that took place about 3 or 4 years ago(I mediated his disciplining our oldest boy,because he pulled his ear)He said that he will never discipline again.I am a stay @ home mom& I work VERY hard @ home.I do not feel like I should "do it all", nor do I feel like this is fair.I am over stressed & worn out.I feel like they all gang up on me.Is any body out there in the same situation or have any suggestions!I cannot go on like this.If I fail as a mother, then I fail @ life.I feel like I want a divorce.HELP!
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