My husband told all my bad things to his sister & mother. ?

Question

What is the role of a good sister & mother in this matter?

Answer 1

They will take his side.

Answer 2

depends on what kind of bad things really

~MeL~

Answer 3

Depends on the bad things.  IN reality they will probably take HIS side because of the slant that he will put on the situation.

Ideally they should just listen to him and NOT make any judgements about you.  Treat you with respect regardless.

Many times parents forget to just listen when their child vents.  THey can get vested into the moment but yet are not there when reconcilement occurs.  

Answer 4

That would depend on your relationship with them. Contrary to another poster here, sisters and mothers-in-law don't always take the brother's/son's side in things.

The role of a *good* sister and mother is to tell their brother and son that they understand his frustrations with you but that he's better off trying to fix them with you rather than go run and cry on their collective shoulders.

That's why my sisters-in-law and mother-in-law did to my husband.

Answer 5

You need to be more specific.  If your husband can't stand by your side and stick up for you, you don't deserve him.  

Answer 6

all your bad things????......

Answer 7

Depends on if for every fault of yours he has a fault to match...if he is just as guilty they should not discriminate...but in the same breathe...that is his family.

Answer 8

  Depending on what these bad things are, it could be he is seeking advise on how to deal with or accept or just wants to know if your odd or weird, the important thing is did he violate some kind of trust doing this was this supposed to be kept secret , have you lost face because of his actions.

  Don't take it so personally maybe he told everyone, and he is not brave enough to tell you that now.