My husband want to join national guard?

Question

we just got married and had a baby and i hate the idea of him going away for 4 months of training and schooling. and then the chance of him getting deployed. i am so scared. i don't think i can handle it. i suffer from anxiety, ocd, and depression ... so all the more i hate the idea of being alone for so long. i need him here. but he cant find a job. i don't know what we are going to do. he thinks this is our only option at this point ...

Answer 1

Being a Military wife is hard, but there are support groups of other military wives. You won't be a lone and the benefits will be great.

It is such an honor to have a loved one in the military.

You have a child you need to focus on now, not yourself.