My husband wanted me?

Question

I'm 21 and my husband is 26 i am pregnant (13 weeks) he loves me a lot but i think he scared to have s*x with me while I'm pregnant. we already talked to the doctor and he explained to him that he cant hurt me but yet still he wont touch me. Whats is problem ?

Answer 1

iN his mind, he still believes he will crush the little child. There is protection all around the kid to insure that does NOT happen despite his pounding during s*x. Also, he has to admit this. If he still refuses, you had really better get him into a shrink and explain that he is avoiding you and despite medical advice allowing s*x ( probably until the two of you can;t fit anymore,) her is obstinate. Beware! This may be a harbinger of something unrelated which might have him pulling away from you. Something is really not right IN husband';s head;. He might need psych evaluations and tests for behavioral and emotional disorders. Either that, or he is plain stupid and doesn't believe medical proof.

My ex wife and I had s*x until month 8 twice.

Answer 2

He cares you and don't want to do anything mistakes.  

Answer 3

he is an anal retentive puss, that's all. Boning you repetitively is good because it opens the vaginal canal and prepares it for birth. He is afraid he will cause injury. Tell him to get humping and do his friggin job.

Answer 4

hes afraid he might hurt the baby..the thought that his p***s is right next to his kids head or butt is a very scary thought.it might make him feel perverted or something

Answer 5

its just his fear of hurting the baby do research show him that there is no way he can hurt the baby i have four kids i know  

Answer 6

ask him.

some men feel they may hurt you, even if they are told they won't.

Answer 7

Ask him.  Strangers on the internet can't possible know what's wrong with him because we don't know him.  Seek counseling.

Answer 8

He's probably getting it elsewhere.

Answer 9

Go buy the book "WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU"RE EXPECTING"

And reading it together.

He is thinking he is doing you a favor, and is trying to be respectfull of you and the baby...

Encourage him

and read that book together

there is also another one called, WHAT TO EXPECT THE FIRST YEAR

Answer 10

Tell him the baby is extremely well-protected in fluid and that he can't hurt you this way.  Baby has lots of buffering.  

Answer 11

Well, I'd not feel comfortable if I was him because he still thinks her could hurt the child. Plus, the fact that you're pregnant could maybe turn him off. I don't know. Talk to him and tell him that everything's fine and that you still want him and that the baby's safe. But talk to him!

Answer 12

sit him down and talk to him find out what the problem is. the only way to know what is in someones head is to ask. let him talk. don't interrupt or u will end the conversation. maybe he is just afraid of the upcoming event.  u won't know til u ask and ask in a way that isn't threatening.. like WHAT'S UR PROBLEM!!!  more calm like honey can we talk? something is bothering u and...

go from there. show caring and concern. maybe u can leave a message for the doctor and see if he mentioned anything to him that may be a clue explain to the doc that he is still afraid and see where that goes.

Answer 13

i dont know i never had that problem. having s*x with your pregnant g/f or wife is awesome!

Answer 14

If he wont even touch you anymore he is probably cheating on you.