My husband wants another baby but im not keen. please help

Question

my husband really wants another baby and he has been asking me verry nicely and keeps bringing the subject up all the time! he gets all happy and talks about how he wants to take the new baby everywhere and show it the world, buy it toys and teach it all about his culpture. all that cute stuff he does with our son already. but to be honost when my son was born 4 years ago i thought id start to like babbies and kids but i still dont. im a good mother but not a child person at all. what would you do? mature advice only please.

Answer 1

it's said that some women aren't born with a maternal insticts, and i know plenty of women that have children but are not that keen on childen generally. honestly, i reccomend weighting the pro's and con's of another child. your husband really seems like the type that loves children and those types of men are usually hard to find. while you may not be so full on about the idea it may mean a great deal to him. you may just want to sit down and have a heart to heart talk with him about your feelings and you could possibly find a common ground on the views of having more children.

Answer 2

i would think hard about another baby if you are not sure about it right now as you know they are alot of work and it takes alot of dedication but you may feel different when your son goes to kinder garden tell your husband that you are not saying never just not right now

Answer 3

I would just explain your feelings with him. After all your the one that has to go through it. He just gets to do all the fun stuff just like he says. Its really up to you.

Answer 4

His culpture?  Is his culpture different than your culpture?