My husband wants to watch me....?

Question

sleep with another guy, then wants me to sleep with both of them. i think it could be fun, anybody have any experience in this area?

Answer 1

i would get a divorce looks like he is turning g*y r something like that

i have never ever heard of anything like that happening unless you guys are like a triplet or something!

good luck!

Answer 2

If you feel positive about it, go for it. If he wants to perform on the other guy, take that as a huge red flag. Huge. Red. Flag.

Answer 3

Yes, it is fun. I have the wife watcher fantasy and love to watch my wife with hung black men. We made it a reality and she loves it that I let her get some. She makes me give him a bj to get him ready while they are kissing each other. I enjoy getting her hung black stud ready for her. It feels great.  

Answer 4

He has no respect for you.  Have a talk with him and let him know that if he doesn't start showing you some respect...he can hit the road.

Answer 5

I would be offended that is ridiculous. He is using you like a product, and you should be something way more special than that.

Answer 6

No experience, but really think about this.  It can ruin your relationship.

Answer 7

In over forty years of professional experience, which includes marital counseling, I've seen about three couples a year who've been this route.  Only two of those marriages survived, and those two went through some very rough times. Does that tell you something?

Answer 8

The question you should be asking yourself is if you're willing to do the same for him.  Do you think you'd enjoy watching him and another woman have s*x and then have a threesome with them afterwards?  If the answer is no, then DO NOT DO IT!  No matter what he says now, he will eventually expect the same in return.  

Answer 9

what the h**l kind of husband is that, no offence. he wants you to sleep with another guy? then sleep with both of them? if he loves you or respects you then he would even think about having you do that!

Answer 10

I think if you two are comfortable with each other and you can control your emotions, go for it and have some fun.  A lot of people are into this sort of thing and while it's not yet 'socially acceptable,' it's fun.

Just enjoy and relax.  Have some fun.

Answer 11

No my husband would never want to do something so sick and disgusting like that cause he loves and respects me plus i would NEVER do it cause i respect my vows.

Answer 12

Threesomes are trouble.  It might seem s**y or fun but he might get jealous or judge you later for being a "s**t" and sleeping with another man.  I would avoid it or perhaps watch videos of threesomes.  Good luck to you!

Answer 13

This sharing, or swinging lifetyle does work for some. You have to be sure you are ready for it  that both of you are. Sit down and talk about all the things that could happen - jealousy, nervousness, all your fears.

Best of luck to you. Do not do anything you are not ready for.

Answer 14

Kinda sounds like he might be g*y.

Answer 15

That's just his way of saying he's a homosexual. First he pawns you off on another man and then he moves in for his share of the guy.

Answer 16

no i never have nor will i...i have heard many people saying how they regret bringing a third person into the bedroom...it ends up causing too much drama...

if youre relationship is strong enough to withstand bringing another guy in then have at er...but dont b surprised if you do this that one day he asks to bring another female in...

Answer 17

I wouldn't mind watching my wife with another man. I like the whole idea of an open relationship.

Answer 18

it could be fun, however it could also damage your marriage in the end

Answer 19

I think you are opening a can of worms.

What about STDs????????  They are a reality!

What if you get pregnant and don't know who the father is?

What about what's right and what's wrong?

What about INFIDELITY?

What about jealousy?

What if you decide you like the other guy better than your husband?

What about your own self-respect?  

Answer 20

I think it is sick. I would never want my wife sleeping with another guy. Your marriage vows obviously meant nothing to him.

Answer 21

sure if your down with it 101%. But, reality is if your not...cheating is cheating whether your there or not. The sacred relationship will cease. But, if your totally okay with it then go for it. IF not, it will haunt you forever and well I see unhappiness in your future.  

Answer 22

If there is interest on both your parts go for it. Just be aware it can create jealousy issues and other problems. It can also just be a hot good time.

Answer 23

go for it. I think it would hurt my feelings though. the fact that my husband wouldnt care or wanted me to sleep with another guy and then if he was planning to touch the other guy would gross me out. ewww. good luck and have fun its just not for me

Answer 24

A neighbor/friend of mine shared his wife with his best friend a couple times.  He made a point of telling me he and his friend did not touch each other even once.  I asked him why he did this, and he said it was just a fantasy of turning his wife into a s**t.  He didn't want to share her with a stranger, though, so he asked her to do him and his best friend.  Believe it or not that is a fantasy of some men.  It doesn't seem to have affected their marriage, and he said after doing it a couple times, they moved on to other stuff.  One of the ground rules, though, is that one partner can't have s*x with another person in secret.  Everything has to be out in the open for any kind of trust to exist.

Answer 25

No, my husband would NEVER share me, because he actually LOVES me.

Answer 26

How do you feel when he asks you to watch him... with another woman?

How do you feel about times when you may not be around to watch him with another man or another woman?

This may be the beginning of a bigger problem.

Don't start what you can't finish.

Answer 27

A recipe for disaster if I ever saw one.

I say avoid this. But what I find fascinating is you think it'll be 'fun'.

I don't know about that.

Answer 28

Your husband is obviously not satisfied with you in bed. Or maybe he's g*y and wants a shot of the other dude himself.

Answer 29

My husband wanted this, too, except he wanted another woman involved.  This is one reason we're no longer married anymore.  If you are both mutually agreeable, and all parties involved are consenting adults, then it's up to you. It's not a lifestyle choice I would make, but it's not my life.

If you are interested, who would the other person be? Someone he knows? Someone you know? A stranger? You have to be very careful with STD's and just bad people.  If you're not both fully committed to this, it could cause problems in your marriage.  If you are willing to try it, and you do it, it could cause further problems. What if you like s*x more with this man than your husband? What if your husband gets jealous? You have to question why he wants this to happen.

Good luck to you.  

Answer 30

to each is own but don't do it unless you are really into it.  I have a friend she likes women and her husband likes three somes.  Now it works for them it's not my thing.  But it fits them as well they have no kids and she is really into it she is not forced into it.  

Answer 31

Sorry hun, your hubby doesn't love you like he should. A man should never want to share you. What will happen next is he'll expect you to share him with other woman, and soon he won't ask for your permission. Have fun with that.